Are you really listening to your body?

By Anita Barnes

Listening to your body can be something as simple as going to bed when you are tired, stop eating before you are overstuffed, or releasing a yoga posture when you’ve gone beyond your edge.  It can also involve more serious things, like preventing your stress levels from exploding into chest pain by saying no, averting an acute pain situation or chronic disease by knowing when to slow down, and respond to pain or discomfort in your body.  

For me, the essence of yoga is about listening to your body, mind and emotions and honouring where they are at, because this changes from day to day, hour to hour, minute to minute.  This listening may involve noticing how your body feels in a particular pose-are your muscles tight, are you feeling a sense of release?  How is your breath-do you notice times when you are holding it or breathing faster than you should?  How are your emotions-what’s coming up for you; sadness, anger, impatience, or boredom?  

I learn so much about myself while on my yoga mat.  Through stillness, movement and breath, I have increased awareness of where I’m holding muscle tension and how my nervous system is doing.  This mindfulness helps me move through negative emotions, practice self-compassion and often find sweetness underneath the negativity.  

Our body and emotions are always communicating, and sometimes it’s very subtle, and unfortunately, we often ignore it.  This has happened to me twice in the last year, and honestly, I should have known better.  In the spring, during the first lockdown – (what # are we at now?) I continued with my weight workout because my gym was closed.  I used light weights and after a few weeks felt they were too light and increased the amount.  I started to notice an occasional throbbing pain in my left triceps.  I ignored this and continued to ignore it, not making the connection that the heavier weights were taxing my muscles.  One night I was awoken by the most excruciating pain, exactly where I felt the original throbbing pain, and it was radiating up to my neck and down to my wrist.   Luckily, I was able to see my physiotherapist and chiropractor for treatment, and they felt the pain was connected to an aggravated radial nerve.  My doctor prescribed me an anti-inflammatory, and I felt better after the first treatment; however, it took several months until I fully recovered. 

You think this would have been a massive wake up call for me to pay attention to subtle changes in my body-the whispers.  Nope.  Since the recent lockdown, state of emergency, whatever we’re at these days, I committed to going for a long walk or hike every single day because my spirit needed this connection to nature.  After a few longer hikes of 2-3 hours through a local conservation area, I noticed a pain in my right glute.  It wasn’t severe pain and didn’t last long, so it was easy to brush off.  However, it did happen at least 4-5 times, and I completely ignored it, and just over a week ago, I paid for this BIG TIME!!!!   

After an active day on January 15th, I noticed a pain in my right hip flexor, went to bed, but didn’t stay long because the pain became too intense.  By Saturday afternoon the pain had increased with a vengeance, and I didn’t sleep on Saturday night and woke my husband up at 3 am on Sunday informing him that he had to take me to emergency because I was in that much pain.  At the ER they ruled out a few things and thought that diagnosis was piriformis syndrome-irritation of the piriformis muscle.  They suggested rest, anti-inflammatories, extra-strength Tylenol and physiotherapy to get back on track.  The pain wasn’t being managed, and on Tuesday morning, I had to go to the ER once again because the pain became so severe that I couldn’t walk.  This time they focused on pain management and gave me morphine via IV and a script.  The pain subsided, and I was able to walk and go home.  

By this time, I hadn’t slept for 4 nights and saw my physiotherapist for the first time.  He performed a full assessment and didn’t think I had piriformis syndrome and felt that my joint and muscles were functioning well.  He thought that I might have overdone it with my hikes and aggravated some muscles and nerves.  

I continued with the pain management meds and physiotherapy, and last Saturday afternoon, I noticed that the pain had left entirely.  I haven’t had any pain since and still have no idea what caused it, but have some ideas.  I believe that my enthusiastic hikes irritated the muscles and nerves in my right hip, and I had plenty of warning that something was up.  

I’m so grateful to be pain-free and have the most profound compassion and empathy for anyone dealing with chronic pain.   I honestly don’t know how anyone deals with it. 

I don’t want to go through something like this again, and I’ve learned my lesson about the importance of listening to my body, not just on my yoga mat, but always.  

Our body, breath and emotions are always communicating to us and sending us messages.  They usually start as little whispers, and if you don’t pay attention, your body will yell at you loud and clear and force you to listen. 

Off the yoga mat, it’s essential to take time throughout your day to slow down, be still and tune in.  How does your body feel?  Do an emotional check-in.  Honour your body, and give it the attention and nurturing that it deserves.  Trust your body,  its’ wisdom and healing abilities.  

Be well.

Anita

Source: https://countyyogaloft.ca/blog/mijpjcfyqxydger4435o02oej6q2zl

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/12/05/are-you-really-listening-to-your-body/

Yoga is so much more than just stretching

What’s the first image that comes to mind when you think of Yoga?  

It’s not uncommon for this image to consist of individuals contorting their bodies into impossible positions that are more appropriate for the Cirque du Soleil.  There is nothing wrong with some of these breathtaking images, and I love looking at them because I’m in awe of the strength, grace, practice, and determination it takes to hold these postures.  My issue with these images flooding social media is that these postures are not possible for most individuals (including me) and the models are usually young, white, beautiful, slim women.  This makes it hard to connect to Yoga’s rich Indian history or how it is a practice that is for EVERYONE regardless of age, body type or ability.

In the last few decades, Yoga has become a billion-dollar business.  When I started attending yoga studios in Toronto in the early 1990s, there were only 2 studios, and now there is a studio every 3 blocks.  There are “yoga teacher rock stars” and businesses that make high-end yoga gear. I’m glad that Yoga has become so popular because this beautiful healing practice impacts more people.  However, I believe this commercialism and competitiveness have diluted the teachings and appropriates this ancient practice in some situations. 

There is evidence that Yoga existed in India as far back as 500 BC with roots in Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and other religions.   Sanskrit is the sacred language of Hinduism, classical Hindu philosophy, and other historical religious texts. The word ‘Yoga‘ is derived from the Sanskrit root ‘Yuj’, meaning ‘to join’ or ‘to yoke’ or ‘to unite-union of mind, body and spirit.  

As a yoga teacher and student, I want my students to be familiar with Yoga’s roots and understand that what happens on the mat is more than just stretching and holding postures.   This union of mind, body and spirit, happens while practicing the asanas-Sanskrit word for postures.  A regular practice will increase flexibility, strength and mobility, and while you are holding the postures, you are practicing pranayama-breath control, meditation, and mindfulness.   This holistic practice is how transformation happens and the “union” builds a healthier, more agile body, calms the nervous system, teaches presence, and provides us with tools that we can use off the mat.  

Yoga has a rich philosophical history that includes sacred and treasured texts: The Vedas, The Upanishads, The Bhagavad Gita and Pantanjali’s Sutras.  

Pantanjali was an Indian sage and thought to be the author of the Yoga Sutras, which is a classical yoga text on yoga theory and practice.  According to his teachings, there are 8 components to Yoga:  

1.   Yamas-attitudes towards environments. 

2.   Niyamas-attitude towards ourselves 

3.   Asana-yoga postures 

4.   Pranayama-breath control and breathing exercises

5.   Pratyahar-withdrawal of senses

6.  Dharana-concentration

7.  Dhyana-meditation

8.  Samadi-complete integration

One of the most compelling benefits of Yoga is stress reduction. It’s inspiring to see how it has helped individuals recover from trauma, PTSD, depression, and anxiety.  

Enjoy the stretching and postures, and know that you are also calming your mind and relaxing your body.  Instead of thinking of Yoga as work out, think of it as a work in.  

Be well.

Anita

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/10/29/yoga-is-so-much-more-than-just-stretching/

Source: https://countyyogaloft.ca/blog/yoga-is-so-much-more-than-just-stretching

Mountain Village with Memories of Mother”: A Painting That Speaks to the Soul

This is a deeply moving landscape painting by H.H.Dorje Chang Buddha III, marked by smooth, flowing brushwork and a natural rhythm. The undulating crimson cliffs seem to rise freely from the artist’s heart, while the vigorous lines brim with vitality and strength. Ink strokes form the skeletal structure of the mountains and rocks, while delicate willows hang softly across the scene, adding a quiet touch of green serenity. The overall palette is vivid but never garish, exuding a warm and nostalgic atmosphere.

In the painting, two thatched cottages nestle beside the mountains and water. Their deep-set doors and silent windows seem to hold untold, quiet stories. It was under these eaves, by these doors, that a loving mother once stood—sending her children off into the world with silent heartache, and waiting countless times in patient hope for their return. That wordless farewell, those tears of longing, have gently seeped into the fabric of time. Among all human emotions, none is greater than a mother’s love. Our memory of that love stirs an innate sense of gratitude—a sacred emotion that transcends the ordinary.

This work embodies the style known as the “Childlike Native School”, which embraces the beauty of rural life through the innocence of a child’s heart. Though the brushstrokes appear naïve and spontaneous, they conceal great depth and mastery. The painting style is free and unrestrained, exuding both boldness and tenderness. The soft, flowing lines connect seamlessly—like a mother’s love, endlessly enduring, gentle yet firm. Its simple composition holds rich emotional meaning and invites the viewer’s imagination to wander. The scene pulses with a childlike liveliness that fills the heart with joy.

The painting’s pure and innocent imagery evokes a return to the carefree days of childhood. No matter where you are, simply gazing at this piece can bring the scene and its emotions vividly before your eyes, awakening the deepest tenderness and longing in your soul.

In creating Mountain Village with Memories of Mother, the artist approached the work with the pure heart of a child, yet painted with the maturity and finesse of a seasoned master. The brush technique draws from traditional Chinese calligraphy—guided by the wrist, powered by the arm—each stroke flowing naturally with graceful spontaneity. This painting was not created for show or technical display, but as a sincere outpouring of emotion and inspiration. Every application of ink and color arises from genuine feeling.

What is art?
At its essence, art is the ability to immediately evoke inner peace, comfort, joy, or spiritual fulfillment in the viewer. But where does this feeling come from? Is it merely the subject matter or visual beauty of the work? Certainly not. A painting does not become great simply because it looks pleasing.

In the context of Chinese painting, the true heart of art lies in a quality called “spiritual resonance” (shen yun). It is vivid, yet elusive—a mysterious charm and subtle power that cannot be described with words. It is born when the artist’s personal cultivation, emotional depth, and spiritual awareness infuse the work, allowing spirit and technique to merge. The result is an artistic vitality that transcends mere form.

Only when viewers are moved by this spiritual resonance do they begin to explore the painting’s formal elements—its composition, color palette, brush technique, balance between painting and calligraphy, and the portrayal of the subject in both spirit and form. While these aspects matter, they ultimately serve a deeper, more profound experience.

In Chinese art, the true value of a painting—its ability to soothe the soul—does not depend on technical skill alone. It lies in whether the work can touch the heart and stir the spirit. Mountain Village with Memories of Mother beautifully embodies this artistic spirit. Every brushstroke gently stirs the viewer’s emotions, evoking tender memories and inviting the soul to linger in its serene beauty.

This exceptional work is housed in the permanent collection of the International Art Museum of America, located in San Francisco—a fitting home for a piece that speaks a universal language of love, nostalgia, and spiritual beauty.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/07/11/mountain-village-with-memories-of-mother-a-painting-that-speaks-to-the-soul/

8 Ways To Self-Sooth Without Using a Mind Altering Substance

8 Ways To Self-Sooth Without Using a Mind Altering Substance

Don’t let everyday stresses and problems get you down to the point where you think the only relief is heavily drinking or some other drug-related solution. Not only will your so-called relief be temporary, it can also be harmful to your health, contribute to possible addiction, and leave you more incapable of dealing with stresses on your own the next time they occur. 

HERE ARE 8 WAYS TO SELF-SOOTH WITHOUT USING A MIND ALTERING SUBSTANCE

READ
Develop a reading habit and you will find that you look forward to your time with your latest book. While you are reading, let this be your time for yourself. Set aside whatever amount of time you can and devote it wholeheartedly to reading.

MEDITATION
Meditation has been practiced for countless centuries to relieve stress, anxiety, depression, to treat a variety of illnesses, to help during treatment for addictive behaviors, reduce high blood pressure, and alleviate pain and to relax. Practice meditating every day at a regular time, for a regular duration. Ultimately, your perspective will start to evolve and you will grow more able to choose your moods and reactions instead of them choosing you.

YOGA
No need to be a master practitioner or a contortionist to reap the benefits from yoga. Yoga can be described as a collection of spiritual techniques and practices that seek to integrate mind, body and spirit in the quest to achieve enlightenment or oneness with the universe.

Photo by Prasanth Inturi on Pexels.com

TAKE A HOT BATH
AH, the satisfaction of soaking in a hot bubble bath, one of the best natural ways to relax and unwind. Give it a try! Light a candle, dim the lights and bring your awareness to the breath. Deep inhales through the noise, exhales out the mouth. Try this for sets of 5. You’ll absolutely feel less anxiety and much more able to cope with the challenges of day to day life.

VOLUNTEER
There’s no question there are many deserving charities and organizations that can use help. Volunteer to help serve meals at homeless shelters, or give of your time to visit with senior citizens at assisted living centers. When you look outside yourself and your own problems and give of yourself, it’s a selfless form of generosity that rewards you with a sense of inner peace.

WALK IN NATURE
Walking in nature helps you to decompress, as it magically increases the bodies natural feel-good chemicals. Breathing in the fresh air, noticing the beauty, and listening to the sounds around you will no doubt elevate your mood, leaving you with a feeling of completion and relaxation. 

BECOME MORE SPIRITUAL
Spirituality is something that is actively pursued, cultivated, and nourished. You don’t need to be religious to reap the rewards of a heightened spirituality. You can develop your spirituality by looking inward and trying to improve your outlook on life. Becoming more spiritual will give you a new appreciation for life and how precious it is. You will be able to give more of yourself to others, and gain richness beyond measure in return.

MAKE A GRATITUDE LIST
Get into the habit of writing down 5 things you are grateful for every morning. Goodness has a way of spreading its way around. When you are positive in your outlook, and act in a manner that inspires others to do likewise, you are helping to lift others out of themselves and into a better appreciation of life.

Life is all about living. Let’s make this life the best we can for as long as we have. You won’t need drugs to help you relax. Living life to the fullest will be your gift — to you and to those you love. Namaste.

Photo by Nilina on Pexels.com

8 Ways To Self-Sooth Without Using a Mind Altering Substance

Link: https://peacelilysite.com/2022/11/09/8-ways-to-self-sooth-without-using-a-mind-altering-substance/

#SelfSooth#Yoga#SPIRITUAL#VOLUNTEER#InnerPeace#WellnessHealth#Meditation

Source: https://www.beinghappybuddha.com

Aloneness to Oneness

Aloneness to Oneness – Life Changing Spiritual Documentary Film on Non-duality

If we could hear all frequencies of sound and see all spectrum of light, then we will have different view and deeper understanding of the world that we live in.

Only 5% of the stuff in our universe is made up of normal matter, but that is where most of us put 100% of our focus and attention. This creates an illusion of separateness where we believe we are alone and that when our material body dies, that’s the end. We even call this stuff “matter” because we believe it is all that matters. But, the other 95% of stuff in our universe is made up of energies and a mysterious dark matter, which actually govern our universe, our bodies, our experiences and our lives. This non-material universe can also be called the spiritual universe. As we tap into this spiritual dimension, we start to see how all things are connected, we see relationships, we feel energies, we sense intuition, and we discover the true nature of our mind. Todd Perelmuter takes us on a spiritual journey, from Aloneness to Oneness, where borders and barriers disappear, and open hearts and open minds take hold. It takes us to a place where anger, greed, hatred and fear cease to be, and only love, joy, peace and gratitude remain. Todd Perelmuter studied meditation and mindfulness from world-renowned teachers around the world for over 9 years. Upon his return to the States, he created EastWesticism, a nonprofit dedicated to helping everyone reach their highest potential and lead a peaceful, calm, and stress-free life.

Aloneness to Oneness – Life Changing Spiritual Documentary Film on Non-duality

It is a very beautiful narrated movie, delivered a profound life messages. However I can’t totally agree with some parts, such as the concept of oneness, because I haven’t had that experience yet, so don’t know what this “oneness” really feels like. To me this is still an abstract concept, and until I can experience it myself I cannot say I truly understand it. Base on my very shallow knowledge of Buddhism, the experience of oneness has many levels. basically there are four levels in Arahant , and 12 stages in Bodhisattva, the higher the stage the greater achievement. Buddha is the only one that has truly reached oneness with everything in the universe. Again, this is just my own understanding, I haven’t experienced any level of the holy being yet. But I hope this short movie will inspire you to find your own spiritual journey, and find the ultimate truth about life and universe.

May Buddha, God and all holy beings Bless us ALL!

Aloneness to Oneness – Life Changing Spiritual Documentary Film on Non-duality

Link: https://peacelilysite.com/2022/06/23/aloneness-to-oneness/

#DocumentaryFilm#SpiritualFilm#Meditation#Death#Oneness#Aloneness#ToddPerelmuter#Buddhism#Arahant#Bodhisattva

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9M56t0UoW5M&t=841s