Seeing a World Within Emptiness — An Appreciation of a Lively and Serene Ink Painting

Myna Birds Drunk Among the Willows by H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III

Some paintings do not rely on complexity to move us. With only a few deliberate strokes, they unfold a world full of life. This fresh and tranquil ink painting is one such work. Quiet and unassuming, it reveals a profound artistic tension and depth within simplicity and stillness.

The composition is anchored by three strong yet supple ink lines. Their texture is rich and full, their force penetrating the paper. They resemble trees, yet are not trees—more like structural forms that divide the flat surface into a grid of interwoven spaces. Within these spaces, branches stretch and intersect, while willow-like lines sway gently, creating a rhythmic sense of motion.

What is most remarkable, however, lies in what is not painted.

The empty spaces are far from void; they are charged with meaning. In these areas of intentional absence, the viewer’s imagination is invited to wander. As the saying goes, “where nothing is painted, there lies the true realm of the painting.” The composition, in its entirety, feels almost like a montage—a sequence of visual moments carefully arranged. From this minimal structure emerges a surprisingly rich and intriguing visual experience.

Bringing the scene to life are several mynah birds, rendered in bold, expressive ink. These small creatures become the focal point of the painting.

They are divided into three groups, each occupying different sections of the grid. In a small triangular space near the top, three birds gather closely together. The density of life within such a confined area creates an immediate visual tension. In contrast, a large quadrilateral space in the lower middle is occupied by just a single bird, as if it has claimed the entire openness for itself—perhaps even becoming the quiet center of the composition.

Then there is a particularly playful detail: a bird in the upper right seems to occupy the intersection of four spaces at once. Though not placed at the center, it establishes its own presence, as if declaring that even at the edge, one can still become a focal point.

These birds preen their feathers, tilt their heads, hum softly, and seem to communicate with one another. Bathed in a sense of freshness, they revel in the gentle beauty of spring, fully immersed in a life of ease and freedom. The entire painting begins to resemble a small, self-contained paradise.

This delightful and imaginative work is created by H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III. Art, at its highest level, is not merely a display of technique—it is a reflection of the inner world. A truly great work reveals the artist’s state of mind and spiritual depth.

In this painting, what we witness is not only mastery of brush and ink, but also a sense of calm, freedom, and purity—a state of being that transcends complexity and returns to essence.

The diverse artistic creations of H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III stand as enduring treasures of human civilization. And this seemingly simple piece gently reminds us:

In a world of endless complexity, true beauty often resides in simplicity—
and true freedom may be found in the space between what is left unpainted.

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The Water-Splashing Festival: Where Tradition, Faith, and Renewal Meet

Every year in mid-April, the streets of Xishuangbanna and Dehong in Yunnan, China transform into a vast ocean of water.

To many, the Water-Splashing Festival is simply a joyful, all-out “water fight.” But what is often overlooked is that this grand celebration does not begin with noise or excitement—it begins with a single, quiet drop of perfumed water falling gently on the shoulder of a Buddha statue.

Today, let us step into Sangken Bimai—the New Year shared by the Dai, De’ang, and Blang peoples—and discover how traditional Chinese folk customs and Buddhist culture come together, blending seamlessly through the gentle yet powerful symbolism of water.

“Sangken Bimai” in the Dai language means “the turning of the New Year.” Its roots trace back to Sankranti, a Sanskrit term meaning “transition” or “passage,” tied to ancient Indian calendrical and religious traditions. With the spread of Theravada Buddhism, this observance took root across Southwest China and Southeast Asia, gradually evolving into a festival rich in both spiritual and cultural meaning.

Before the streets erupt in splashing water, every temple begins with a solemn and tranquil ritual: bathing the Buddha.

Devotees gather fresh flowers, soak their petals in clean water, and create a lightly scented infusion. One by one, they approach the Buddha statue, gently pouring the water over it with branches or cupped hands, symbolically washing away dust.

In this moment, there is no noise—only reverence.

This act is not merely an offering of respect to the Buddha; it is also a ritual of inner purification. It represents washing away the greed, anger, and ignorance accumulated over the past year, allowing the heart to return to clarity and light as the new year begins.

The Water-Splashing Festival typically lasts three to four days. While details vary by region, the structure follows a meaningful progression—from letting go of the old, through transition, to welcoming the new.

Day One: Farewell to the Old Year
This day resembles New Year’s Eve.

Along the Lancang River, dragon boats race across the water, sending waves splashing into the air. “Rising rockets”—traditional homemade fireworks—shoot skyward, carrying people’s wishes with them. Dressed in festive attire, people gather at lively markets filled with laughter and celebration, bidding farewell to the passing year.

Day Two: The Day Between Time
This is a deeply symbolic day—belonging neither to the old year nor yet to the new.

People building and decorating sand pagodas with flags and flowers on a beach during a festival

People visit temples to build sand stupas, shaping fine white sand into small pagodas adorned with colorful flags and flowers. Each grain of sand represents a good deed or kind thought.

This act of merit-making expresses hopes for favorable weather, peace, and stability in the coming year.

Day Three: Blessing and Rebirth Through Water
The first day of the New Year begins again with the Buddha-bathing ritual, followed by the festival’s most exuberant moment—water splashing.

For elders, water is gently poured over the shoulders as a sign of respect and blessing. Among peers and younger generations, however, the mood shifts into joyful abandon—buckets, basins, and water guns come into play, and laughter fills the air.

The more water, the deeper the blessing.

At this point, water is no longer just water—it becomes a tangible expression of good fortune and joy, symbolizing the washing away of the past and the arrival of new life.

A Celebration of Culture and Spirit

The Water-Splashing Festival is not only a holiday—it is a vibrant expression of culture.

The rhythmic beat of elephant-foot drums echoes like thunder, while the graceful peacock dance reflects harmony between humans and nature. As night falls, people release floating lanterns onto rivers and send sky lanterns drifting into the night, symbolizing the release of misfortune and the rising of hope.

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In these moments—both dynamic and still—people express reverence for nature and heartfelt wishes for the future.

One Drop of Water, A Shared Cultural World

This festival does not belong to Yunnan alone.

Across Southeast Asia, it appears under different names, yet carries the same cultural essence.

In Thailand, Songkran is not only about water—it is a time of gratitude and family connection. Younger generations gently pour scented water over the hands of elders to receive blessings, while also participating in merit-making rituals such as building sand stupas. Bright floral shirts have become a modern symbol of the celebration.

In Myanmar, the festival—known as Thingyan—has an especially strong spiritual atmosphere. Many people observe periods of fasting, visit temples, or even temporarily ordain as monks to welcome the New Year with purity and reflection. Traditional foods, such as soaked rice infused with fragrant water, are prepared, while large city celebrations feature grand stages where water is sprayed over joyful crowds.

Though names and customs vary, they all trace back to the same origin—Sankranti, marking not only the passage of time, but the renewal of life.

From the valleys of Yunnan to the cities of Southeast Asia, this single drop of water travels across geography and culture, quietly connecting the entire region.

It begins in stillness before the Buddha, and flows into laughter among people.
It symbolizes both letting go and renewal—purification and blessing.

What makes the Water-Splashing Festival so moving is not merely its liveliness, but what it reveals:

Even in the simplicity of everyday life, people continue to express kindness, cherish life, and hold hope for the future in the gentlest of ways.

A drop of water falling on the Buddha’s shoulder is an act of practice.
A splash of water shared among people is a blessing.

And when that water flows through the heart, perhaps what is truly cleansed…is ourselves.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/04/30/the-water-splashing-festival-where-tradition-faith-and-renewal-meet/

Between Instinct and Grace: A Moment the Ocean Remembered

Diver embracing a large whale surrounded by colorful fish and coral underwater

There are stories that belong not only to science, but also to wonder—stories that unfold in that quiet space where facts end and meaning begins.

One such moment took place in 2017, in the warm, crystalline waters off Rarotonga, part of the serene islands of the Cook Islands.

Marine biologist Nan Hauser had spent nearly three decades studying humpback whales in these waters. She knew their rhythms, their migrations, their presence. The ocean, to her, was not unfamiliar—it was home.

And yet, on that day, something happened that she herself would later struggle to fully explain.

As she swam, a massive humpback whale approached her—directly, powerfully, and without warning. It nudged her. Lifted her. Pressed her gently yet insistently through the water. Again and again, it positioned its enormous body around hers, guiding her in a direction she did not understand.

There was fear. How could there not be?
To be moved by a creature weighing tens of thousands of pounds is to feel the fragile nature of one’s own body. Every movement carried the possibility of harm.

For several long minutes, the whale would not leave her.

Then, beneath the surface, a shadow revealed itself.

A tiger shark moved through the deep—silent, powerful, and unmistakably dangerous.

Only later did the pieces begin to align.

The whale’s circling.
The persistent nudging.
The careful positioning.

It had remained between her and something she had not yet seen.

Whether the whale intended to protect her is something science cannot say with certainty. Researchers, including experts like Robert Pitman, have long documented how humpback whales sometimes intervene when predators such as killer whales threaten other marine life. They have been seen shielding seals, escorting injured animals, even disrupting hunts.

But a human?

That question remains open—resting quietly in the unknown.

And perhaps that is where the true beauty of this story lies.

Because not everything meaningful can be measured.

What we know is this:
A woman entered the ocean alone.
A powerful creature stayed beside her.
A danger passed.
And she returned safely.

Between those simple facts lives a mystery—one that invites not certainty, but reflection.

Was it instinct?
Was it coincidence?
Or was it something that gently echoes what we, as humans, might call care?

Standing at the edge of such a moment, we are reminded of how little we truly understand about the inner lives of the beings who share this world with us. The ocean, vast and ancient, holds countless stories like this—unwritten, unproven, yet deeply felt.

Perhaps what matters most is not defining the whale’s intention, but recognizing the invitation within the encounter.

An invitation to humility.
To reverence.
To a quieter way of seeing.

In a world where we often place ourselves at the center, moments like this shift the perspective. They remind us that we are participants, not masters—threads woven into a much larger, living tapestry.

And sometimes, in ways we cannot fully explain, that tapestry seems to respond.

Gently.
Powerfully.
And just when it is needed most.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/04/13/between-instinct-and-grace-a-moment-the-ocean-remembered/

When One Heart Becomes a River: A Story of Quiet Compassion in Kenya

Elephant, zebras, giraffe, lions, buffaloes, and other animals drinking at a watering hole in a dry savannah

In the vast wilderness of Tsavo West National Park at Kenya, drought once tightened its grip on the land. Rivers disappeared. Waterholes turned to dust. Under the relentless sun, the earth cracked open, and the animals—elephants, zebras, buffalo, and antelope—wandered in search of something that no longer existed: water.

Amid this silent crisis, there was a man named Patrick Kilonzo Mwalua.

He was not wealthy, nor powerful. He was an ordinary farmer. But sometimes, it is the most ordinary people who carry the most extraordinary hearts.

Each day, after tending to his own responsibilities, he made a choice—a choice that would quietly change the fate of countless lives. He filled a truck with water and drove for hours across dusty, rugged terrain. The journey was long, the heat unforgiving, and the road uncertain. Yet he returned again and again, carrying thousands of gallons of water into the parched wilderness.

He did not do this once.
He did not do this for recognition.
He did this every day.

And then, something remarkable happened.

The animals began to recognize him.

At the distant sound of his truck engine, elephants would slowly emerge from the horizon. Zebras and antelope gathered nearby. Buffalo stood waiting near the dry waterholes. There was no fear in their eyes—only a quiet trust.

They knew.

This man was bringing life.

Man driving water truck delivering water to animals in desert

In a world where humans often take from nature, here was someone who simply gave back. No speeches, no grand declarations—just the steady rhythm of compassion in action.

When asked why he did it, his answer was simple:
“If I don’t do it, they will die.”

There is a profound truth in those words. Compassion does not always arrive with ceremony. Sometimes, it appears as a single person who sees suffering and refuses to turn away.

This story brings to mind the spirit of Rabindranath Tagore, whose words remind us that a life can gently illuminate another life:

Live yourself as a light,
Because you don’t know
Who, by your light,
May walk out of the darkness.

Keep kindness in your heart,
Because you don’t know
Who, through your kindness,
May walk out of despair.

Though often shared in his name, whether these lines are directly his or inspired by his spirit, their meaning echoes here with quiet truth.

This story reminds us that kindness does not require abundance. It does not wait for perfect conditions. It begins in the heart, in that quiet moment when we choose to care.

Like a drop of water falling into dry soil, one act of goodness can bring life where there was none. And just as water sustains the body, compassion sustains the spirit of the world.

Perhaps we may not all drive water trucks across deserts. But in our own lives, there are always thirsty places—moments, people, and hearts in need of care.

And perhaps, like him, we can choose to become a small river.

Flowing quietly.
Giving steadily.
Nourishing life, one drop at a time. 🌿

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/04/08/when-one-heart-becomes-a-river-a-story-of-quiet-compassion-in-kenya/

When Love Lifts Life: A Remarkable Story from the Ocean

Mystical sperm whales with golden runes and a bioluminescent calf in a deep-sea environment.
Ancient whales adorned with golden runes protect a bioluminescent calf in this mystical deep-sea scene.

July, 2023. Out on the open sea.

A group of marine biologists was tracking a pod of sperm whales. At first, something felt strange. Eleven whales floated motionless at the surface, as if time itself had paused. The ocean was eerily quiet.

Then, about an hour later, the stillness shattered. The water suddenly turned red.

Hearts racing, the scientists braced themselves for the harsh reality of nature.
Was this a hunt? A death? A moment of survival at another creature’s expense?

But as a drone camera moved closer, the truth revealed something entirely different.

There was no violence. No tragedy.

A mother whale—named Rounder—was giving birth.

In a rare and breathtaking moment, the scientists witnessed a new life entering the world. A tiny tail emerged first, as sperm whale calves are born tail-first, and slowly, a newborn began its journey into the vast ocean.

It should have been a moment of pure joy.

But in the ocean, birth is only the beginning of the struggle to survive.

A newborn sperm whale faces an immediate danger. Unlike adults, it has not yet developed the specialized organ in its head that helps regulate buoyancy. In simple terms, the baby cannot stay afloat on its own.

Without help, it would sink.

And sinking, in the open ocean, means death.

But what happened next was something no one could have predicted.

The ten other whales surrounding Rounder moved into action.

One by one, they swam beneath the newborn calf, using their massive bodies to gently push it upward—lifting it to the surface so it could take its first breaths. Again and again, they repeated this act, forming a living cradle beneath the fragile life.

This was not a brief effort.

For three hours, the whales took turns, tirelessly supporting the newborn, ensuring it did not sink. Each whale became a living buoy, offering strength, patience, and care.

It was a relay of compassion.

What makes this story even more extraordinary is what scientists later discovered: nearly half of the whales helping that day were not directly related to the mother or the calf.

They were not bound by blood.

And yet, they stayed. They helped. They gave their strength to protect a life that was not “their own.”

In the world of sperm whale, this is part of a deeper truth. These whales live in close-knit, matriarchal societies—grandmothers, mothers, aunts, and daughters supporting one another. But their care goes beyond family ties. It extends into a culture of mutual aid, a shared understanding:

Today I help you. Tomorrow, someone will help me.

In a world where nature is often described as ruthless and unforgiving, this moment tells a different story.

Survival is not driven by strength alone.
It is sustained by connection.

Even in the vast, indifferent ocean, life finds a way through cooperation, through presence, through something that looks very much like love.

Perhaps there is something for us to learn here.

In our own lives, we all face moments when we feel like we are sinking—overwhelmed, alone, unable to stay afloat. And sometimes, the help that lifts us does not come from those closest to us, but from unexpected kindness, from strangers, from quiet acts of support.

Like those whales in the open sea, we, too, are part of a larger web of life.

In Buddhism, there is a teaching that all beings are interconnected, bound together through causes and conditions. The kindness we offer today becomes the support we receive tomorrow. This is the quiet working of karma—not as fate, but as the natural unfolding of our actions.

The whales did not calculate reward or recognition. They simply responded to suffering with care.

In the same way, when we act with compassion, we become part of a greater flow of life—one that uplifts, protects, and sustains all beings.

Perhaps awakening does not begin with grand realizations, but with small, sincere acts:

To notice when another is sinking.
And to gently help them rise.

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The Ancient Marvel That Still Breathes: Understanding Dujiangyan

While many ancient wonders exist only as weathered ruins—silent witnesses to lost civilizations—Dujiangyan Irrigation System is something entirely different. It is not a relic of the past, but a living, breathing masterpiece.

Built around 256 BC by the visionary engineer Li Bing, this extraordinary irrigation system continues to do exactly what it was designed to do over two millennia ago: tame the waters of the Min River, prevent catastrophic floods, and nourish vast stretches of fertile land across the Chengdu Plain.

What makes Dujiangyan truly astonishing is not just its longevity—but its philosophy. It achieves perfect water control without a single dam.

Modern engineering often seeks to conquer nature with towering concrete barriers. Dujiangyan, by contrast, embodies a radically different idea: harmony over control.

Rather than blocking the river, the system gently guides it—using the river’s own energy to regulate itself through three elegantly designed components:

  • Yuzui (Fish’s Mouth Levee): A natural divider that splits the river into inner and outer channels.
  • Feishayan (Flying Sands Weir): A clever spillway that uses the river’s force to flush away excess water and sediment.
  • Baopingkou (Precious Bottle Neck): A narrow opening carved through the mountain, acting like a natural valve to control water flow.
Fish’s Mouth Levee

Flying Sands Weir

Baopingkou

Together, these elements form a system that feels less like machinery and more like a living organism—responsive, adaptive, and enduring.

The “Four-Six” Rule: Nature’s Invisible Hand

At the heart of Dujiangyan lies one of its most brilliant innovations: the Four-Six Divide (四六分水)—a subtle yet powerful hydraulic principle.

Through careful shaping of the riverbed, Li Bing created an automatic system that adjusts itself with the seasons:

  • In the dry spring months, the deeper Inner River naturally draws in about 60% of the water, ensuring that farmlands receive the nourishment they need.
  • During the summer floods, the wider Outer River takes over, diverting roughly 60% of the surging waters away from populated areas.

No gates. No sensors. No human intervention.

Just the quiet intelligence of design aligned with nature.

The result is nothing short of extraordinary: a self-regulating system that protects against both drought and disaster.

Why It Still Thrives After 2,200 Years

It is rare—almost unimaginable—for a piece of infrastructure this ancient to remain central to modern life. Yet Dujiangyan continues to serve as the lifeline of the Chengdu Plain.

Its enduring relevance lies in principles that feel strikingly modern:

  • Sustainability: Instead of fighting sediment buildup, the system uses the “Flying Sands” technique to naturally flush out the majority of silt, keeping waterways clear.
  • Ecological Harmony: Without a massive dam or reservoir, the river remains alive—fish migrate freely, and ecosystems flourish undisturbed.
  • Living Tradition: The annual practice of Zhuoshui—a deep cleaning of the riverbed—continues today, blending ancient ritual with contemporary science.

Li Bing’s guiding philosophy was deceptively simple:
“Deepen the channel, keep the dykes low.”

Yet within these words lies a profound truth—one that extends far beyond water management.

By respecting the natural flow rather than resisting it, he created a system that has outlasted kingdoms, revolutions, and the passage of time itself.

Recognized today as a UNESCO World Heritage Site, Dujiangyan stands as a quiet but powerful reminder:

Sometimes, the most advanced solutions are not those that overpower nature—but those that understand it.

And perhaps, in a world still learning to balance progress with sustainability, this ancient marvel is not just a story of the past—but a guide for the future.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/03/19/the-ancient-marvel-that-still-breathes-understanding-dujiangyan/

Two Stories, One Truth: How Kindness Can Save You When It Matters Most

In 1925, the lay practitioner Zhou Qunzheng made a pilgrimage to Mount Putuo together with Master Hongyi (弘一). At the Zhoushan pier, they encountered a monk. Upon learning that the monk was from the same hometown, Zhou asked him, “What inspired you to leave the household life and become a monk?”

The monk replied:

“I was originally a soldier. One day, I saw a shopkeeper’s wife sitting on the street, weeping. I asked her what had happened. She said a customer had come into her shop, bought something, and paid with three silver coins. After he left, she discovered that all three coins were counterfeit. She feared her husband would scold her, so she cried in distress.

I couldn’t bear to see her suffering, so I took out three genuine silver coins and offered to exchange them with her. She refused, but I insisted and eventually made the exchange.

Later, during a battle, a shell exploded right beside me. Shrapnel struck my chest, yet I was unharmed. When I looked closely, I realized that the three counterfeit coins in my pocket had saved my life—two had been pierced by the shrapnel, and one remained intact. It was because they shielded me that I survived without injury.

After that, I thought to myself: what meaning is there in spending the rest of my life amid gunfire and danger? So I chose to leave the worldly life and become a monk…”

Therefore, do not think that constantly encouraging others to do good deeds and accumulate virtue is merely empty, repetitive talk. Sometimes, you have no idea how much misfortune your blessings have already shielded you from.

Behind every day that you return home safely, how much of it is because “before blessings fully arrive, calamities have already been kept at a distance”?

To practice kindness and accumulate virtue—it is never too late.

He built a road for others, and unknowingly paved one for himself

In 2014, in a remote village in Guangxi(广西)China, a 44-year-old man named Huang Yuanfeng was diagnosed with terminal liver cancer. Doctors told him the reality: without treatment, he might live only three months; with treatment, perhaps a few more years—but at the cost of his family’s entire savings of 170,000 yuan.

Most people would have chosen to fight for their own survival.

But Huang made a different decision.

Looking at the muddy, nearly impassable road in his village—a road that trapped children at home during rainy days and left crops to rot—he chose to spend all his savings not on treatment, but on building a road for everyone.

When the money ran short, he borrowed more from neighbors, making a solemn promise: “Even if I die, my son will repay you.”

Against all odds, the road was completed. It transformed the village, bringing in visitors, creating opportunities, and improving countless lives.

But what happened next was even more astonishing.

When Huang returned to the hospital for a check-up, his condition had not worsened—in fact, it had stabilized, even improved. What seemed like a certain end became an unexpected turning point.

His story carries a simple but powerful truth:

Kindness is never lost.
The good you do for others may one day return to protect you—especially in life’s most dangerous moments.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/03/16/two-stories-one-truth-how-kindness-can-save-you-when-it-matters-most/

The Poetry Hidden in Chinese Names

Chinese characters are more than just written symbols—they are small works of art shaped by thousands of years of history. Each character carries meaning, imagery, and often a quiet sense of poetry. A single word can evoke light, wind, mountains, or virtue. When these characters come together to form a person’s name, they become something even more meaningful: a reflection of family hopes, cultural heritage, and the beauty of language itself.

A name often carries the very first blessing from parents and the hopes a family places upon the future.

Imagine traveling back in time to ancient China. If you walked up to Liu Bei (刘备)and casually called him “Liu Bei,” he might pause in surprise—or even consider it somewhat impolite. In traditional Chinese culture, a name was never just a label. It was a symbol of lineage and family, a part of life’s rituals, and perhaps the first gentle poem parents wrote for their child.

A name may consist of only a few characters, yet within it often lies thousands of years of cultural tradition and human warmth.

Surnames and Clan Names: An Ancient Way of Asking “Who Am I?”

Today, we simply combine a surname and given name to form what we call a “full name.” But in ancient China, particularly before the Qin dynasty, “xing” (姓) and “shi” (氏) were two different concepts.

The surname (xing) was primarily used to distinguish marriage relations. The earliest Chinese surnames—such as Ji, Jiang, Si, and Ying—often contained the “female” radical in their characters. This reflected the legacy of a matrilineal society. The principle was simple: people with the same surname were considered to share blood ties, so marriage between them was forbidden.

The clan name (shi), on the other hand, represented social status. Only those who held land, titles, or significant achievements were granted a clan name. In other words, the surname represented lineage, while the clan name reflected rank and honor.

A fascinating example is the famous reformer Shang Yang (商殃) of the Warring States period. He was not originally called “Shang Yang.” His ancestral surname was Ji, and his clan name was Gongsun because he descended from the royal family of the State of Wei. Early in life he was known as Gongsun Yang. Later, after helping transform the State of Qin through sweeping reforms, he was granted the territory of Shang and the title “Lord of Shang.” From then on, people began calling him Shang Yang.

Looking back at history, one might smile at an interesting truth:
In ancient times, many people changed their names not to hide who they were—but because life had elevated them to a new chapter.

The Courtesy Name: A Rite of Adulthood

In ancient China, a person often had more than one name. In addition to their given name (ming), they also received a courtesy name (zi).

The given name was mostly used within the family, especially by elders. The courtesy name, however, was the name used in society by peers and acquaintances.

Receiving a courtesy name meant that a person had reached adulthood and should be treated with respect.

For men, this moment came at the age of twenty during the “capping ceremony” (冠礼). In this solemn ritual, elders placed a ceremonial cap on the young man and bestowed upon him his courtesy name. From that day forward, he was no longer the boy running through village fields with childhood nicknames like “Little Dog” or “Iron Egg,” but a recognized adult in society.

For women, adulthood was marked by the hairpin ceremony (笄礼) at around fifteen. After this ceremony, a young woman could wear her hair pinned up with a hairpin, signifying that she had reached marriageable age.

This is where the classical phrase “waiting in the boudoir for one’s courtesy name” (待字闺中) comes from—describing a young woman who has received her courtesy name and awaits the next chapter of life.

These rituals made the transition into adulthood both solemn and graceful.

Chinese culture often reveals its subtle wisdom in the relationship between a person’s given name and courtesy name.

The great strategist Zhuge Liang (诸葛亮)was known by the courtesy name Kongming(孔明).
The character Liang means “bright,” and Ming also means “light” or “clarity.” Together they form a beautiful echo—brightness upon brightness.

The legendary general Zhao Yun (赵云)had the courtesy name Zilong(子龙). Ancient Chinese sayings describe the natural harmony between elements: “Clouds follow the dragon, and the wind follows the tiger.” With “cloud” in his given name and “dragon” in his courtesy name, the combination evokes an image of heroic power moving through the skies.

Then there is the great Song dynasty writer Su Shi(苏轼), whose courtesy name was Zizhan(子瞻). The character Shi refers to a horizontal bar at the front of an ancient carriage—something modest in appearance yet essential for support. Zhan means “to look forward into the distance.” One suggests quiet steadiness; the other, far-reaching vision. Together they reflect the balance of humility and aspiration in his life.

Through these pairings, we can glimpse the hopes of parents and elders, as well as the refined and poetic sensibilities of traditional Chinese culture.

Of course, not every ancient name was elegant or poetic. Some carried a touch of everyday humor.

The ruler Duke Cheng of Jin was said to have the name Heitun(黑臀), meaning “Black Hips,” supposedly because he had a dark birthmark on his body.

Another ruler, Duke Zhuang of Zheng, was named Wusheng(晤生), meaning “born with difficulty,” referring to a difficult birth.

If children today were given such names, they might have a few serious conversations with their parents!

On the other hand, some names sounded incredibly powerful. The king King Wu of Qin was named Ying Dang. In ancient Chinese, the character “Dang” suggested sweeping across lands and conquering territories—a name filled with ambition and authority.

Sometimes a name was lofty and ceremonial; sometimes it simply reflected the humor of daily life.

From ancient tribal totems to the familiar Hundred Family Surnames, Chinese names carry thousands of years of cultural memory.

Today, we no longer perform capping ceremonies or hairpin ceremonies, and few people receive courtesy names. Yet when a new child enters the world, parents still open dictionaries, carefully weighing every sound and every meaning before choosing a name.

In that moment, tradition quietly continues.

As an old Chinese poem says:

“A heart’s great aspirations may remain unopened,
yet spring winds return again and again in dreams.”

A name may consist of only a few characters, but it carries a family’s blessing, the imprint of history, and the gentlest hopes for the future.

It is the very first gift a person receives in life.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/03/15/the-poetry-hidden-in-chinese-names/

A Quiet Afternoon with Art: Discovering Inspiration at the Triton Museum of Art

Recently, I had the opportunity to visit the Triton Museum of Art, a cultural gem nestled in the heart of Santa Clara, California. Surrounded by a peaceful park, the museum offers a quiet and welcoming space where visitors can slow down, reflect, and experience the beauty and creativity of contemporary art.

Founded in 1965, the Triton Museum has long been dedicated to showcasing artists connected to California and beyond. What I appreciate most about this museum is its openness—it is free to the public, making art accessible to everyone in the community. Walking through the galleries, one can feel how art becomes a bridge connecting cultures, ideas, and human experiences.

Encountering the Art of Emanuel Harris‑Sintamarian

During my visit, one exhibition that particularly captured my attention featured the work of Romanian artist Emanuel Harris‑Sintamarian. His paintings immediately drew me in with their unique textures, layered compositions, and deeply expressive forms.

There is something both mysterious and meditative about his work. The colors and shapes seem to flow organically across the canvas, inviting viewers to pause and explore their own interpretations. Rather than presenting a straightforward image, his art feels like a visual journey—one that encourages contemplation and emotional reflection.

During my visit, I took several photos of the exhibition that I would like to share here. These images capture only a small glimpse of the atmosphere inside the gallery, but they reflect the creativity and thoughtful spirit of the artists on display.

Jesus, Popcorn and other details
2024
Acrylic, gouache on paper
In Jesus, Popcorn and Other Details, I
bring the sacred into direct contact with
systems of spectacle, labor, and
consumption. Jesus is not placed above the
world, but embedded within it – caught in
scaffolding, color, and movement – where
belief collides with industry and visual
excess. Popcorn becomes both image and
metaphor, standing in for abundance,
distraction, and the way meaning is
consumed, repeated, and ritualized
I intentionally built a dense, restless
composition that resists hierarchy or
stillness, reflecting how faith, entertainment,
and production compete for attention in
contemporary life. Rather than offering
reverence or critique alone, the painting
holds these tensions in place, asking the
viewer to sit inside the noise and consider
where meaning survives.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/03/14/a-quiet-afternoon-with-art-discovering-inspiration-at-the-triton-museum-of-art/

Pilgrimage to Bhutan (Part 3): Audience with the Je Khenpo and the Ascent to Tiger’s Nest

By Gongjue Tuji

View of Taktsang Monastery on the cliff face, taken from the cafeteria viewpoint halfway up the trail.
The goal of the ascent in sight: Taktsang Monastery is perched high on the steep cliff face

On a pilgrimage to holy places, one rarely follows a rigid plan. Rather, one engages with a flow of events. Our last days in Bhutan reminded us how valuable it is to let go of expectations. We learned that special doors often open exactly when one is ready to leave the original path.

Change of Plans in Punakha: Trusting the Flow of Things

The sixth day showed us this very clearly. Actually, we had a fixed plan: We wanted to drive from Punakha back to Paro. There, we had donated 3,000 butter lamps which we wanted to light ceremonially in a temple.

But then we received news on short notice that an audience with His Holiness the Je Khenpo, the highest religious head of the country, would be possible. Such an opportunity is a great blessing. However, there was a restriction: Our entire travel group was simply too large for this spontaneous audience.

So we had to split up in Punakha. One part of the group drove directly on to Paro, while the other part drove to Thimphu, where His Holiness the Je Khenpo was staying at the time. I traveled with this group.

Scenic panoramic view over the green Thimphu Valley, with the distinctive Buddha Dordenma statue visible in the distance atop the mountain.
View of Thimphu with the Buddha Dordenma statue in the background

Thangton Dewachen Nunnery: Legacy of the Iron Bridge Monk

Arriving in Thimphu, we still had some time before the appointment. We visited the Thangton Dewachen Duthop Nunnery. It is the only one of its kind in the capital and goes back to the legendary Thangtong Gyalpo. He was a fascinating personality: A great Mahasiddha and at the same time an ingenious engineer who lived in the 15th century. He is famous as the “Iron Bridge Monk,” as he built dozens of suspension bridges made of iron chains throughout the Himalayas to allow pilgrims and travelers to cross raging rivers. Many of his constructions withstood the centuries. We were welcomed very warmly at this place: We were served tea in the courtyard of the monastery, and we could enjoy the peaceful atmosphere for a moment before we had to leave.

Gongjue Tuji in traditional robes standing in the sunny courtyard of the Thangton Dewachen nunnery next to a tall Dharma pillar, while a dog sleeps peacefully in front.
Visiting the Thangton Dewachen Duthop Nunnery

Kalachakra Initiation: Encounter with H.H. the Je Khenpo

After lunch, we made our way to the stadium. There, H.H. the Je Khenpo was leading the conclusion of the Kalachakra initiation. The crowds were immense. The stadium itself was packed to capacity, but that was far from enough. Countless people had also gathered on the grounds outside to partake in the event. It was a very impressive image. The ceremony was also being broadcast live on Bhutanese television. We initially had to wait before the gates until we were allowed into the stadium.

After some time, we were able to enter and were led to a separate waiting area inside the stadium. During this time, a chance but wonderful encounter occurred. We met the young Vairochana Rinpoche (Ngawang Jigme Jigten Wangchuk). He is a highly revered Tulku and the son of Her Royal Highness Princess Sonam Dechan Wangchuk. He is revered as the reincarnation of the great translator Vairochana from the 8th century, one of the most important disciples of Guru Padmasambhava.

Following this, we were granted an audience with H.H. the Je Khenpo. Filled with gratitude, we presented him with a Khata (white scarf) as a token of our deep respect. In this special setting, we also had the opportunity to present His Holiness with information regarding the ‘Holy Heavenly Lake Buddhist Town’ project. Each of us then received a personal blessing, and upon our departure, he presented us with a text of the Amitabha Sadhana for our own practice.

Group photo of the Buddhist travel group after the special audience with H.H. the Je Khenpo at the Thimphu stadium following the Kalachakra initiation.
Our group after the audience with H.H. the Je Khenpo

After the meeting with the Je Khenpo, a further great honor was completely unexpectedly offered to us: Actually, we were supposed to meet the young Vairochana Rinpoche and the Queen Mother for an official audience afterwards. But when the Kalachakra initiation ended, thousands of people streamed out of the stadium at the same time. Traffic in Thimphu came to a complete standstill. There was no getting through, and we could not reach the agreed location in time. Such are the karmic conditions sometimes. But we did not quarrel with fate: After everything we had experienced that day and the blessing we were allowed to receive, we felt richly gifted.

The Tiger’s Nest: Ascent to Guru Rinpoche’s Cave

On the last day of our trip, November 15th, the arguably most famous landmark of Bhutan was on the agenda: Paro Taktsang, widely known as the Tiger’s Nest. It is not only architecturally deeply impressive, but one of the holiest sites in the entire Himalayas.

The famous Tiger's Nest Monastery (Paro Taktsang), clinging spectacularly to a sheer cliff face in the Paro Valley of Bhutan, set against a blue mountain backdrop.
Paro Taktsang Monastery (Tiger’s Nest)

We set off very early to reach the base camp, the parking lot at 2,300 meters. From there, it is about 800 vertical meters up to the monastery, which sits at 3,120 meters. For visitors who do not quite trust themselves with the steep climb, there is generally the option to be carried by a horse or mule for the first part of the route. Our group, however, decided to cover the entire path on foot under our own power.

The ascent took just under three hours. The path is beautiful, but also demanding. It leads through a dense pine forest where rhododendrons grow and the trees are draped with moss. Again and again, prayer flags flutter in the wind. Halfway up, we took a short rest at a café. From there, you already have a first, breathtaking view of the monastery, which literally clings to the steep rock.

Impressions (in order): Resting horses at the starting point, fluttering prayer flags against the mountain backdrop, pack animals on the dusty trail, the first distant view of the cliffside monastery, the moss-covered mountain forest, and Tsa-Tsa offerings in a rock niche.

The history of this place is closely connected to Guru Rinpoche, the great Master Padmasambhava. He is revered by the Bhutanese as the “Second Buddha,” as he brought and firmly established Tantric Buddhism, the Vajrayana, in Bhutan in the 8th century. He manifested his supernatural powers and flew to this very spot on the back of a tigress to subdue a demon. Some say that the tigress was his tantric consort Yeshe Tsogyal in a transformed state. In the cave known as Taktsang Senge Samdup, around which the monastery was later built, he then meditated for exactly three years, three months, three weeks, and three days.

Once at the top, we had to hand in our cameras and bags at the entrance, as photography inside is strictly forbidden. We visited several small temples within the complex. In a special room that is guarded around the clock, I lit a butter lamp. This is the only place in the monastery where open fire is still permitted after a devastating fire destroyed large parts of the complex in the past. In Buddhism, lighting these lamps is a meritorious central ritual.

Gongjue Tuji and Venerable Master Shi Zheng Da standing with Dharma siblings in front of the sacred waterfall near the entrance to Paro Taktsang (Tiger's Nest).
With Venerable Master Shi Zheng Da in front of the Taktsang Waterfall

Farewell in Paro: A Promise to Return

Back at the hotel in Paro, a special guest awaited us in the evening: Dasho Passang Dorji, the former Speaker of the National Assembly of Bhutan. He had been instrumental in organizing the official appointments and came by personally to apologize politely that the meeting with the King had not taken place due to the commotion. He promised us: “Next time I will arrange, this time the King and the Queen have been too busy.”

Ceremonial exchange of gifts between Venerable Master Shi Zheng Da and Dasho Passang Dorji in the hotel lobby at the conclusion of the trip.
Exchange of gifts with Dasho Passang Dorji

In a very friendly atmosphere, an exchange of gifts took place. The Venerable Master Shi Zheng Da presented him with a special art object, a luminous three-dimensional picture of a Yun sculpture designed by H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III. In return, he gave the Master a large golden Shakyamuni Buddha statue. It was a worthy moment of connection.

Scenes from the performance (in order): The famous Drametse Ngacham (Dance of the Drums), a solo dancer bowing deep, the performers of the yak scene, the humorous interaction of the yak with the audience, the women’s dance group in red garments, and finally a traditional performance with bows and arrows combining song and dance.

Afterwards, we watched a cultural performance together with Dasho Passang Dorji. There were traditional dances and songs whose gentle, flowing movements radiated great calm and peace. There were also humorous interludes, like the dance of a yak, where the performers visibly had fun. Even though I did not understand the language, the joy was contagious. After this show, we all gathered for a large group photo to capture this beautiful final evening.

Large farewell group photo of the entire travel group together with Dasho Passang Dorji and the Bhutanese guides on the illuminated steps of the hotel.
Our entire group with Dasho Passang Dorji and our guides

The next morning, November 16th, it was time to say goodbye. From the hotel, we could look directly at the airport. We had arrived to make a contribution with our donation and our plans. But as I boarded the plane now, I felt that we ourselves were taking away far more than we had given. I took with me not only memories of the mighty mountains and venerable monasteries, but the feeling of a deep connection with our travel group and the people in Bhutan. I return with much inspiration and a heart full of gratitude for the blessing I was allowed to experience in this country.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/02/05/pilgrimage-to-bhutan-part-3-audience-with-the-je-khenpo-and-the-ascent-to-tigers-nest/