Tag: Health

One Page at a Time: Reclaiming Our Minds in the Age of Endless Screens

linda changLeave a comment

In today’s world, our phones are never more than an arm’s length away, and our minds rarely get a moment of true rest. We scroll without thinking, click without choosing, and consume without noticing. But deep inside, many of us feel the same quiet truth—we are losing ourselves in the noise. This post is a small reminder that peace, clarity, and spiritual nourishment are still possible, if we begin to consciously take back our attention.

Instagram Reels, YouTube Shorts, Facebook browsing—what starts as a quick check so easily becomes an hour of mindless scrolling. It’s almost frightening how fast time disappears. Even without TikTok, I can feel the pull of the algorithm shaping my habits, my attention, even my thoughts.

Of course, technology brings wonderful conveniences. We can speak with loved ones across the world instantly, save treasured memories, learn anything we want, and make life easier in countless ways. But lately, I’ve realized something important:

I’m exhausted. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

My attention span is scattered. Silence feels uncomfortable. I reach for my phone without thinking. And I’ve begun to wonder—is this what addiction feels like? Knowing you don’t need it, yet still reaching for it anyway?

We all know we’re on our screens too much.
But knowing doesn’t free us.
Conscious action does.

The Real Cost: What Screen Time Is Stealing From You

This isn’t just about an hour lost to Instagram; it’s about the erosion of the most vital parts of our lives. The time we spend staring into a screen is time actively taken away from meaningful, real-world engagement.

Screen time is truly troubling our lives right now:

  • We have less time to exercise. The energy required for a twenty-minute workout is often sacrificed for twenty minutes of passive scrolling on the couch.
  • We have less time to play with kids. Those precious, unrepeatable moments of building a fort or kicking a ball are missed because we’re “just checking” a notification.
  • We have less time to talk to our parents/partners. Authentic, present conversation is replaced by parallel consumption, sitting next to a loved one while both are immersed in separate digital worlds.
  • We have less time for deep, restorative sleep. The blue light, the stimulating content, and the mental chatter we absorb right before bed actively hijack our ability to rest.

A Spiritual Perspective: Why Screen Addiction Makes Us Unhappy

In Buddhism and many spiritual traditions, the mind is described as a lake.
When the surface is constantly stirred—by notifications, news, entertainment—it becomes muddy. We can no longer see clearly. Wisdom, compassion, and calmness all sink beneath the surface.

Excessive screen time:

  • scatters the mind through endless stimulation
  • drains our life-force through constant comparison and craving
  • steals the quiet moments where insight and peace are born
  • pulls us away from real presence—real people, real breath, real living

Spiritual masters remind us:
“Where your attention goes, your life goes.”
If our attention is constantly fragmented, our life becomes fragmented too.

Actionable Suggestions to Reduce Phone & Social Media Time:

StrategyHow It Works
The Friction FolderMove all tempting social media/entertainment apps into one folder on the very last page of your phone screen. This adds just enough friction to make you pause before opening.
Grayscale ModeSwitch your phone display to black and white. Color is a primary driver of attention and addiction; removing it makes the screen less stimulating and less fun to look at.
Set App LimitsUse your phone’s built-in Screen Time settings to put a hard limit (e.g., 30 minutes) on all social media apps. Once you hit it, the app locks for the day.
The “Phone Bed”Designate a charging spot outside your bedroom. Use a traditional alarm clock. Your bedroom should be a sanctuary for sleep and connection, not consumption.
The “Purpose-First” RuleBefore you unlock your phone, state out loud (or in your mind) what you are picking it up to do (“I am checking the weather,” “I am calling Mom”). Complete the task and immediately lock the screen.

Mindful Practices I’m Recommending:

These are small, spiritual steps to reclaim your mind:

  • Put the phone out of sight. What the eyes don’t see, the mind doesn’t crave.
  • Create “sacred screen-free hours.” Mornings or evenings where the mind can rest—like offering ourselves a daily meditation.
  • Return to the breath whenever the urge to scroll pops up. One breath. One pause. One moment of awareness.
  • Read again—slowly, intentionally. A physical book becomes a refuge, a temple for the mind.
  • Replace noise with mindfulness. Walk without headphones. Eat without a screen. Let silence become a friend again.
  • Remind yourself of impermanence. Every moment spent scrolling is a moment of life we never get back.

Little by little, I’m learning to soften the grip that screens have over me.
Not by force, but by nurturing something deeper—presence, clarity, and spiritual freedom.

Do One thing mindfully and intentionally at a time. It’s time to be truly alive again.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/12/04/one-page-at-a-time-reclaiming-our-minds-in-the-age-of-endless-screens/

Source: https://vocal.media/humans/call-of-the-child

How to Eat Healthy as a Vegetarian

linda changLeave a comment

How to Eat Healthy as a Vegetarian: A Complete Guide to Balanced Plant-Based Nutrition

Choosing a vegetarian lifestyle can be deeply meaningful — whether for health, compassion, the environment, or spiritual reasons. But simply cutting out meat does not automatically make a diet healthy. To feel energized, strong, and nourished, vegetarians need to understand how to balance nutrients, diversify foods, and support the body with wholesome meals.

This guide explains exactly how to eat healthy as a vegetarian, whether you are new to this lifestyle or wanting to improve your current eating habits.

1. Focus on Whole, Minimally Processed Foods

A healthy vegetarian diet begins with whole foods that deliver essential nutrients without excess sugar or artificial additives.

Include plenty of:

Tofu, tempeh, or other soy products

Fresh fruits

Vegetables of all colors

Whole grains (brown rice, quinoa, oats, barley)

Beans, lentils, and legumes

Nuts and seeds

Focus on Whole, Minimally Processed Foods

Whole foods provide fiber, vitamins, minerals, and plant compounds that support long-term health.

2. Prioritize Plant-Based Protein

Protein is essential for muscles, energy, hormones, and immune function. Vegetarians can easily meet their needs by mixing different protein sources throughout the day.

Healthy vegetarian proteins include:

Eggs*
(*for ovo-lacto vegetarians)

Lentils

Chickpeas

Black beans and kidney beans

Tofu and tempeh

Edamame

Greek yogurt*

Prioritize Plant-Based Protein

Combining proteins with whole grains, such as beans with brown rice, creates a complete amino acid profile.

3. Ensure Adequate Iron Intake

Vegetarians need to be mindful of iron because plant-based iron (non-heme iron) is absorbed less efficiently.

Adequate Iron Intake

Great vegetarian iron sources:

Iron-fortified cereals

Spinach, kale, and dark leafy greens

Lentils and chickpeas

Pumpkin seeds

Blackstrap molasses

Tip: Eat iron-rich foods with vitamin C (citrus, tomatoes, berries) to boost absorption naturally.

4. Don’t Forget Vitamin B12

Vitamin B12 is critical for nerve health and energy, but it is mainly found in animal products. Most vegetarians should include:

Vitamin B12

B12-fortified plant milks

Nutritional yeast with added B12

B12 supplements (if needed)

Even small deficiencies can cause fatigue, so this nutrient is important.

5. Get Enough Calcium and Vitamin D

Healthy bones require a steady supply of both.

Calcium and Vitamin D

Vegetarian sources of calcium:

Bok choy

Fortified plant milks

Tofu made with calcium sulfate

Almonds

Broccoli

Sources of vitamin D

Sources of vitamin D:

Sunshine exposure

Fortified plant milks

Supplements if recommended

6. Include Healthy Fats

Healthy fats support brain function, hormones, and skin health.

Add these into your meals:

Avocado

Nuts (walnuts, almonds, cashews)

Seeds (chia, flax, hemp)

Olive oil

These also help your body absorb fat-soluble vitamins like A, D, E, and K.

7. Build Balanced Meals

To eat healthy as a vegetarian, structure your plate for optimal nutrition:

½ vegetables (raw or cooked)

¼ plant protein (lentils, tofu, beans)

¼ whole grains (quinoa, brown rice, whole wheat pasta)

Add a portion of healthy fats on the side

This offers the perfect balance of fiber, protein, and energy.

8. Limit Highly Processed Vegetarian Foods

Limit Highly Processed Vegetarian Foods

Just because a food is “vegetarian” does not mean it’s healthy.

Limit:

  • Fake meats with long ingredient lists
  • Fried foods
  • Sugary cereals
  • Instant noodles
  • Vegetarian junk food

Choose naturally nutritious options most of the time.

9. Stay Hydrated

Vegetarians often consume more fiber, so hydration becomes even more important for digestion and energy.

Stay Hydrated

Aim for: 6–8 cups of water a day

Herbal tea or fruit-infused water as alternatives

10. Listen to Your Body

Every person’s digestive system and nutrient needs are different. Pay attention to how specific foods make you feel.

Ask yourself:

  • Does this meal give me energy?
  • Am I eating enough protein?
  • Do I feel satisfied after eating?

Mindful eating helps you adjust your diet to your body’s needs.

Eating Healthy as a Vegetarian Is Simple and Rewarding

Eating healthy as a vegetarian becomes effortless when you focus on whole foods, balanced meals, and key nutrients like protein, iron, B12, and healthy fats. With a mindful approach, a vegetarian lifestyle can provide excellent energy, vitality, and long-term wellness, while reflecting compassion and sustainability.

#VegetarianDiet #HealthyEating #PlantBased #VegetarianTips #NutritionGuide #HealthyLifestyle #MindfulEating #BalancedDiet #VegetarianMeals #Wellness

How the United States Strongman (USS) Built a National Community of Everyday Athletes Through Shared Purpose

linda changLeave a comment

Lyssanoel Frater Contributor

United States Strongman (USS) began in 2014 with a simple but powerful vision: create opportunities for athletes to test their strength in an environment that feels fair, safe, and genuinely supportive. President and Owner Willie Wessels has shaped the organization around a philosophy he repeats often: “for athletes, by athletes.” It is the principle that guides every decision, from event approvals to gym affiliations to the culture athletes encounter when they show up on competition day.

With various events held annually across the country, USS has grown into a national platform for competitors of all levels. “The mission has remained the same from day one,” Wessels says. “We want people to have a place where they can work toward their goals and know the event has been organized with their best interests in mind.” Each competition is required to meet safety and quality standards that Wessels personally reviews, giving athletes confidence that every show has been thoughtfully planned.

According to Wessels, Strongman itself is a diverse sport, blending both functional and traditional strength movements. USS events showcase everything from tire flips and stone lifts to sandbag carries and log presses. Each venue brings its own personality; some competitions take place at independent gyms, some at community centers, and others at local businesses that open their doors for a day of strength, cheering crowds, and grassroots community spirit. “You might see an event in a gym parking lot one week and then a full setup inside a large venue the next,” Wessels says. “What matters is that athletes walk in and feel excited and safe.”

Willie Wessels, Founder and CEO of USS (Image Credit: William Wessels)

USS also supports athletes through its membership structure, which provides access to certified events and ensures the competitions they enter meet established standards. The membership system also connects competitors to pathways leading toward national and international opportunities. 

Under his leadership, the organization has become known for celebrating participation as much as podium finishes. Athletes within USS come from every background imaginable: teachers, healthcare workers, factory workers, engineers, and even complete beginners who discovered the sport by chance. “Strongman is not just for a certain type of person,” Wessels says. “It’s for anyone who wants to challenge themselves.” For many, it can become a place where physical strength intersects with self-confidence, camaraderie, and discipline.

This community-first mindset reflects Wessels’ personal history. At 62, he has spent more than three decades coaching, teaching, and supporting athletes. Before launching USS, he was a longtime health and physical education teacher, a career he describes with warmth. “Working with students taught me patience, humility, and how to meet people where they are,” he says. His passion for building strength, physical and personal, was shaped early on by his mother, whose commitment to education left a lasting mark. “She went back to school at 39 and earned her bachelor’s, two master’s degrees, and her PhD,” he says. “She showed me what persistence looks like.”

Wessels earned the title of North American Strongman in 2002, a moment that inspired many and deepened his belief in giving athletes a place to pursue their potential. Wessels’ own perseverance was profoundly tested when he was diagnosed with leukemia in 2003. Despite a prognosis that offered only a brief window of survival, he continued coaching and competing while undergoing years of treatment. “I just kept showing up,” he says. “Coaching kept me grounded.” 

His personal journey is woven into the foundation of USS. What began as a vision to make the sport more accessible has grown into a movement supported by hundreds of competitions and a network of affiliated gyms across the U.S. Looking ahead, Wessels sees continuous expansion as a natural progression of the sport’s momentum. He noted that participation is rising among both men and women, and the spectrum of athletes continues to widen. 

Wessels says the future of USS will always be guided by the same principles that shaped it from the beginning: fairness, safety, and genuine support. What drives him now is the same thing that drove him as a teacher, a coach, and an athlete: watching people discover what they are capable of.

“At the end of the day, this is not just about lifting weights,” Wessels says. “It’s about showing people they are stronger than they think, on the field and in life.” It’s a belief that has helped build United States Strongman into a national community grounded in resilience, respect, and purpose, and one that continues to grow with every athlete who steps onto the competition floor.

Link:https://www.usatoday.com/story/special/contributor-content/2025/11/20/how-the-united-states-strongman-uss-built-a-national-community-of-everyday-athletes-through-shared-p/87373169007/

When Your Brain’s Motivation System Gets Stuck — Rediscovering Energy Through “Slow Joy”

linda chang1 Comment

Lately, I’ve noticed how many people — friends, colleagues, even myself at times — feel drained and uninspired.
We wake up tired, scroll through our phones for quick hits of excitement, yet still feel empty inside.
It’s as if our inner engine has lost its spark.
But according to a 2025 review published in Trends in Neurosciences, there’s a scientific reason behind this: our brain’s dopamine release system may be getting stuck.

That could explain why so many of us today feel unmotivated or emotionally flat, even when life seems to be “going fine.”

Dopamine: Not Just the “Happy Chemical”

We often call dopamine the molecule of happiness, but that’s only part of the story.
In reality, dopamine isn’t what makes you happy — it’s what gets you moving toward happiness.

Dopamine creates a sense of anticipation — that spark of “I want to try,” the energy that propels us to start something new.
Whether you’re preparing for an exam, signing up for a new class, cleaning your room, or going for a run — it’s not satisfaction that moves you, but dopamine giving you direction and desire.

Think of dopamine as your internal GPS, guiding you toward what feels meaningful, hopeful, and worth pursuing.

Dopamine doesn’t just “fire” from one neuron to another like a light switch.
Recent discoveries show that the brain also uses something called “volume transmission” — a gradual release process, more like a sprinkler or diffuser that spreads dopamine through nearby areas, affecting your overall state of mind.

This helps explain a familiar modern phenomenon:
why short videos or instant rewards feel thrilling for a second — yet leave us empty moments later.
Meanwhile, the slow joys — exercising regularly, nurturing a hobby, cooking, gardening, or spending time with loved ones — bring calm, sustainable satisfaction.

Fast stimulation burns us out. Slow joy builds us up.

When the System Breaks Down, The Brain “Runs Out of FuelSeveral key proteins, such as VMAT2, SV2C, and α-synuclein, regulate how dopamine is stored and released.
They work like the warehouse managers of your brain, deciding when and how much dopamine to release, and whether there’s enough supply to restock.

When this system falters, it doesn’t just cause movement issues like Parkinson’s disease — it also leads to emotional flatness, loss of motivation, chronic fatigue, and social withdrawal.

This isn’t weakness or laziness. It’s your brain signaling that it’s running low on essential fuel.

Three Ways to Help Your Brain’s Motivation System Restart

1. Practice “Slow Joy” — Reconnect with Steady Dopamine Flow
Reduce dependence on instant stimuli like scrolling through social media or bingeing short videos.
These quick hits train your brain to expect constant flashes of excitement.

Instead, rediscover activities that bring gentle, lasting satisfaction: cooking, reading, painting, walking, gardening.
These are the true dopamine recharge stations of life.

2. Move Regularly — Activate Your Natural Dopamine Circuit
Moderate exercise — brisk walking, jogging, squats — done three times a week for 10–30 minutes can powerfully stimulate healthy dopamine pathways.
You don’t have to push to exhaustion; what matters is rhythm and consistency.
Your brain thrives on the expectation of movement, not punishment.

3. Nourish the System — Sleep, Nutrition, and Antioxidants
Sleep is when your brain restores neurotransmitters and regenerates vesicles for dopamine storage.
A lack of rest is like leaving your mental warehouse in chaos.

Eating antioxidant-rich foods such as berries, dark leafy greens, olive oil, and omega-3s helps reduce oxidative stress and support brain health.
Simple, consistent habits are the quiet repair crew your dopamine system needs.

Real vitality isn’t a burst of fireworks — it’s a steady inner light that guides us through our days.
Dopamine’s true gift isn’t the thrill of reward, but the strength to keep going.

When we gently adjust our daily rhythm, we can regain focus and energy without needing excessive caffeine or quick fixes.
We can once again feel that grounded sense of, I’m back on my path. From “Chasing Highs” to “Finding Rhythm.”

The Truth About Drugs and False Freedom

Recently, we’ve seen more tragic news about drug-related crimes.
This makes it even more urgent to talk about dopamine honestly.

Drugs artificially force the brain’s “stimulation gate” wide open — creating a short-lived high while devastating the system meant to sustain real joy.
People chasing that artificial rush often lose direction, harming themselves and others.

Drugs don’t create happiness — they destroy the very system that makes it possible.
That’s not freedom; it’s captivity disguised as pleasure.

When you feel tired, unmotivated, or emotionally numb, remember this:
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken.
Your brain simply needs care, rhythm, and nourishment.

We don’t need to be blinding LED lights burning out too soon.
We can be warm, steady lamps — quietly lighting our own path and bringing comfort to those around us.

Reference:
Redefining dopaminergic synapses beyond the classical paradigm, Trends in Neurosciences, 2025

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/11/11/when-your-brains-motivation-system-gets-stuck-rediscovering-energy-through-slow-joy/

The Humble Cabbage: An Overlooked Treasure of Health and Simplicity

linda changLeave a comment

Shutterstock

Cabbage is one of the most common vegetables in our daily lives. Because it is so ordinary, many people tend to overlook its remarkable health benefits. While people often say “rarity makes things precious,” the truth is that some of the simplest, most affordable foods are also the most nourishing — and cabbage is one of them.

Once considered “the food of the poor,” cabbage has long been underestimated. In the 15th century, a Parisian writer even remarked that the poor ate cabbages and turnips instead of bread. Perhaps that old prejudice lingers today — many still see cabbage as plain and unrefined. Yet, with rising grocery costs and a renewed interest in wholesome eating, it’s time to rediscover this modest, versatile vegetable and bring it back to our tables.

A Traditional View: Cabbage in Chinese Medicine

According to Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), cabbage has a neutral nature and a sweet flavor. It nourishes the stomach and intestines, promoting healthy digestion and balanced energy.

Let’s explore some of its wonderful health benefits:

1. Anti-Aging Properties

Cabbage is rich in antioxidants that combat cellular oxidation and delay the aging process. For those seeking to maintain youthful vitality, a simple bowl of cabbage may hold more power than any expensive serum.

2. Boosts Immunity

Packed with vitamin C, cabbage strengthens the immune system, helping the body fend off colds and infections while enhancing overall energy and resilience.

3. Supports Healthy Blood Pressure

Cabbage contains high levels of potassium, which helps regulate blood pressure by balancing sodium levels and supporting cardiovascular health.

4. Prevents Osteoporosis

Abundant in vitamin K, cabbage aids in blood clotting and calcium absorption, strengthening bones and teeth while preventing osteoporosis.

5. Promotes Digestive Health

Cabbage contains vitamin U, known as the “anti-ulcer factor.” It helps regulate stomach acid, heal ulcers, and soothe the digestive tract. Japanese studies have found that cabbage’s glucosinolates can inhibit Helicobacter pylori, the bacteria linked to gastritis and ulcers.

6. Cancer Prevention

The sulfur-containing compound isothiocyanate gives cabbage its distinctive aroma — and its powerful anti-cancer properties. This compound helps neutralize toxins, protect cells, and reduce cancer risk.

7. Rich in Folic Acid

Folic acid in cabbage is essential for pregnant women, helping prevent fetal malformations and supporting healthy red blood cell production.

8. Anti-Bacterial and Anti-Inflammatory Effects

Cabbage contains natural phytoncides — plant-based antibacterial compounds — that reduce inflammation, fight infections, and even soothe sore throats or small wounds.

Culinary Versatility

Cabbage’s mild flavor and satisfying crunch make it a versatile kitchen staple:

  • Salads and Slaws: Shred cabbage with carrots, apples, or nuts for a refreshing, colorful slaw.
  • Stir-Fry: Sauté with garlic and soy sauce for a simple yet delicious side.
  • Soups and Stews: Add chopped cabbage for extra nutrition and heartiness.
  • Fermented Foods: The star ingredient in sauerkraut and kimchi — both rich in probiotics and flavor.
  • Stuffed Dishes: Use cabbage leaves to wrap rice, lentils, or meats for comforting stuffed rolls.

Lightly Pickled Cabbage: A Liver Cleanser and Detox Aid

Cabbage contains indoles, anti-cancer nutrients that also protect the liver and enhance detoxification. When cabbage is lightly pickled, its benefits multiply.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, sour flavors are believed to nourish the liver. Lightly pickled cabbage helps detoxify the body, strengthen immunity, beautify the skin, and support cardiovascular and digestive health.

Fermented cabbage is also a powerful probiotic food. Lactobacillus plantarum, a beneficial bacteria from fermented cabbage like kimchi, supports the gut microbiome — the foundation of our immune system and overall well-being.

Easy Recipe: Lightly Pickled Cabbage

Ingredients

  • 500 g cabbage
  • 2 teaspoons salt
  • 1 teaspoon sugar

Instructions

  1. Wash and drain the cabbage, then slice it finely.
  2. Divide into two portions. Place half in a bowl, sprinkle with 1 teaspoon of salt, and gently knead until softened.
  3. Add the remaining half, the rest of the salt, and sugar. Continue kneading until juicy.
  4. Pack into a clean glass jar with its liquid.
  5. Seal and leave in a cool place for half a day to lightly ferment, then refrigerate. Serve chilled.
Shutterstock

Cabbage may not have the glamour of kale or the trendiness of arugula, but it carries quiet strength and wisdom — a reminder that simplicity often hides great value. In a world obsessed with novelty and luxury, perhaps we can learn from this humble vegetable: to nourish deeply, give generously, and thrive quietly.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/11/06/the-humble-cabbage-an-overlooked-treasure-of-health-and-simplicity/

Yoga is so much more than just stretching

linda changLeave a comment

What’s the first image that comes to mind when you think of Yoga?  

It’s not uncommon for this image to consist of individuals contorting their bodies into impossible positions that are more appropriate for the Cirque du Soleil.  There is nothing wrong with some of these breathtaking images, and I love looking at them because I’m in awe of the strength, grace, practice, and determination it takes to hold these postures.  My issue with these images flooding social media is that these postures are not possible for most individuals (including me) and the models are usually young, white, beautiful, slim women.  This makes it hard to connect to Yoga’s rich Indian history or how it is a practice that is for EVERYONE regardless of age, body type or ability.

In the last few decades, Yoga has become a billion-dollar business.  When I started attending yoga studios in Toronto in the early 1990s, there were only 2 studios, and now there is a studio every 3 blocks.  There are “yoga teacher rock stars” and businesses that make high-end yoga gear. I’m glad that Yoga has become so popular because this beautiful healing practice impacts more people.  However, I believe this commercialism and competitiveness have diluted the teachings and appropriates this ancient practice in some situations. 

There is evidence that Yoga existed in India as far back as 500 BC with roots in Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and other religions.   Sanskrit is the sacred language of Hinduism, classical Hindu philosophy, and other historical religious texts. The word ‘Yoga‘ is derived from the Sanskrit root ‘Yuj’, meaning ‘to join’ or ‘to yoke’ or ‘to unite-union of mind, body and spirit.  

As a yoga teacher and student, I want my students to be familiar with Yoga’s roots and understand that what happens on the mat is more than just stretching and holding postures.   This union of mind, body and spirit, happens while practicing the asanas-Sanskrit word for postures.  A regular practice will increase flexibility, strength and mobility, and while you are holding the postures, you are practicing pranayama-breath control, meditation, and mindfulness.   This holistic practice is how transformation happens and the “union” builds a healthier, more agile body, calms the nervous system, teaches presence, and provides us with tools that we can use off the mat.  

Yoga has a rich philosophical history that includes sacred and treasured texts: The Vedas, The Upanishads, The Bhagavad Gita and Pantanjali’s Sutras.  

Pantanjali was an Indian sage and thought to be the author of the Yoga Sutras, which is a classical yoga text on yoga theory and practice.  According to his teachings, there are 8 components to Yoga:  

1.   Yamas-attitudes towards environments. 

2.   Niyamas-attitude towards ourselves 

3.   Asana-yoga postures 

4.   Pranayama-breath control and breathing exercises

5.   Pratyahar-withdrawal of senses

6.  Dharana-concentration

7.  Dhyana-meditation

8.  Samadi-complete integration

One of the most compelling benefits of Yoga is stress reduction. It’s inspiring to see how it has helped individuals recover from trauma, PTSD, depression, and anxiety.  

Enjoy the stretching and postures, and know that you are also calming your mind and relaxing your body.  Instead of thinking of Yoga as work out, think of it as a work in.  

Be well.

Anita

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/10/29/yoga-is-so-much-more-than-just-stretching/

Source: https://countyyogaloft.ca/blog/yoga-is-so-much-more-than-just-stretching

When the Flu Is Gone but Fatigue Remains: How to Help Your Immune System Truly Recover

linda changLeave a comment

“Healing doesn’t end when the symptoms disappear — it ends when the body finally feels safe to rest.”

As the weather cools and flu season approaches, I came across some fascinating medical insights online that I felt were worth sharing with everyone reading my blog. Many of us have experienced this: the cold or flu seems gone, yet fatigue, throat irritation, or strange discomforts linger. Why does this happen, and how can we truly recover?

🧠 The Immune System Has a Memory—And Sometimes a Grudge

Doctors often hear this kind of complaint:

“My cold is gone, but I’m still exhausted. My throat feels weird, I get dizzy, and my stomach’s off…”

This isn’t because the virus remains—it’s because your immune system hasn’t fully stood down.

According to a 2025 review published in Cell Research, our immune system possesses something called trained immunity. That means it “remembers” past infections, stress, or inflammation. This helps it react faster next time—but sometimes, it overreacts.

It’s like your body has fought a war, and though the battle is over, the soldiers are still gripping their weapons, ready to defend at the slightest sound.

That’s why after you’ve “recovered,” you may still feel fatigued, have a scratchy throat, dry skin, or stomach issues. Your immune system is still in battle mode.

🦴 Memory Hidden in the Bone Marrow

This “memory” lives deep in your bone marrow stem cells, which remember intense inflammation and produce more reactive immune cells afterward.

In moderation, this keeps you alert to future threats. But under constant stress—lack of sleep, oily food, pollution, or anxiety—your immune system becomes overly vigilant.

Over time, this can cause chronic low-grade inflammation, leading to lingering tiredness, allergies, digestive issues, and even chronic diseases like diabetes or heart problems.

⚠️ When the Immune System Is Too Vigilant

The immune system is meant to react swiftly and then reset. But when it forgets how to relax, it starts misidentifying harmless things as threats.

You might notice:

  • Sore throats that flare up with stress
  • Headaches or bloating after emotional tension
  • Skin or gut reactions after eating sweets or processed food

These are signs of an overtrained immune system—one that’s too loyal for its own good.

🌼 How to Help Your Immune System “Let Go”

The best medicine isn’t a pill—it’s how you live every day. Here are four gentle ways to guide your immune system back to balance:

1. Eat for Calm, Not Chaos

Skip high-fat, high-sugar, and processed foods that fuel inflammation.
Instead, try a Mediterranean-style diet—fresh vegetables, fruits, olive oil, nuts, fish, and whole grains.
These nourish your immune cells and teach them to stay calm.

2. Sleep: The Reset Button

Sleep resets immune memory. Without enough rest, bone marrow cells stay in high-alert mode.
A regular sleep schedule is like a classroom where your body learns order and recovery.

3. Manage Stress Gently

Emotions like anxiety, anger, and loneliness all affect immunity.
Take time for deep breathing, sunlight, music, or quiet moments. Even doing nothing helps your body hear the message: “It’s safe now.”

4. Move, Don’t Push

Moderate aerobic exercise trains your immune system to respond wisely.
Studies show that people who move regularly—three to five times a week—have stronger, steadier immunity and less fatigue.

🌸 True Health Is Intelligent Immunity

Many believe “strong immunity” means “never getting sick.”
But true health means having an intelligent immune system—one that knows when to fight and when to rest.

So if you’ve recently recovered from a cold but still feel drained, don’t worry. Your body isn’t weak—it’s simply learning how to relax after the storm.

Be patient and kind to yourself.
Eat well, sleep deeply, breathe freely, and move with ease.
That heavy, lingering fatigue will soon melt away.

Because your body remembers not just pain—it also remembers peace.

Your body’s memory is a diary of your life.
When you fill your days with calm, warmth, and balance, your immune system learns to trust again.
And in that trust, you don’t just recover from illness—you truly return to health.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/10/24/when-the-flu-is-gone-but-fatigue-remains-how-to-help-your-immune-system-truly-recover/

Louise Hay: From Pain to Healing, From Healing to Helping the World

linda changLeave a comment

There are some people whose presence feels like sunlight—warm, gentle, and full of hope. Louise Hay was one of them. An internationally renowned spiritual teacher, best-selling author, and pioneer of the self-help movement, she inspired millions of people around the world to believe in their own healing power. Her landmark book You Can Heal Your Life has sold over 50 million copies in 35 countries, translated into 29 languages, and for many, it sits by the bedside as a trusted guide through life’s storms.

To the world, Louise Hay seemed perfect—healthy, elegant, wise, always radiating grace. Her teachings lifted countless people out of despair, helped them restore their health, and gave them courage to live again. Media across the globe lovingly called her “the closest person to a saint.”

But what made Louise extraordinary was not that her life was flawless—it was that she transformed the deepest wounds into the greatest gifts. Behind her radiant presence was a childhood filled with suffering, abuse, and neglect. It was from that very pain that she forged the wisdom that changed the lives of millions.

1. Falling Amid Misfortune

When Louise was just 18 months old, her parents divorced, abruptly ending her once-happy family life.

At that time, women had little social standing. After the divorce, her mother could only work as a maid to survive, while Louise was sent to live in foster care.

At age five, her mother remarried in the hope of giving Louise a complete home. But this marked the beginning of her nightmare.

Louise was raped by a neighbor, abused and assaulted by her stepfather, and subjected to violence and sexual exploitation. These experiences left her with deep wounds and a lack of self-worth. In her teenage years, as long as a man showed her the slightest kindness, she would give herself to him. By the age of sixteen, she had already given birth to a daughter.

Her childhood was filled with tragedy, and her youth with self-destruction. Those early wounds shaped her into someone who did not know how to love herself.

Yet later in life, Louise chose not to remain trapped in resentment or regret. She said, “No little boy is born a predator, and no little girl is born a victim. These are learned behaviors shaped by childhood experiences.”

2. Awakening and Transformation

In her forties, Louise was diagnosed with cancer. That moment became her wake-up call. She realized how little she had cared for her own body, and she resolved to change.

Instead of following the conventional treatment suggested by her doctors, she turned to what she called “holistic healing.” Within six months, her cancer had disappeared.

Holistic healing, as Louise practiced it, meant changing destructive thought patterns and adopting healthier eating habits. She stopped mourning her unhappy past and stopped blaming her parents. Instead, she came to understand their own painful childhoods.

During her recovery, she ate mostly sprouts and simple natural foods, avoiding processed products entirely. She also trained her mind daily—using positive affirmations, choosing not to let negative emotions dominate her, and seeing every situation through a more uplifting perspective.

Her life changed completely. She documented her experiences and insights in books, which went on to inspire millions and transform countless lives.

3. You Can Choose Your Own Destiny

There are many in this world who have been hurt or are still suffering. Their stories move us deeply.

But as an old Chinese saying goes, “Those who seem pitiable often have traits that make them vulnerable.” In truth, much of life’s suffering continues because, consciously or unconsciously, we allow it. And the root often lies in our formative years.

Take, for example, teenage pregnancies. While news headlines may highlight shocking cases, the majority stem not from coercion but from lack of self-respect or proper knowledge. Similarly, many women trapped in abusive relationships remain because they lack self-worth and the courage to leave.

We cannot rewrite our childhoods, but we can shape our adult lives. As Louise Hay wrote in You Can Heal Your Life: Mindfulness Edition:

“Every negative message you received as a child can be transformed into a positive affirmation.”

If you had an unhappy past, stop feeding yourself negative words. Begin telling yourself: I am worthy of love. I am needed. I have many strengths. I can live the life I choose.

And if doubt still lingers, look at Louise Hay’s journey. Few have endured the kind of suffering she did—yet she lived a life admired and envied by many. If she could, why not you?

In the infinity of life where I am, all is perfect, whole, and complete.

Life Is Really Very Simple. What We Give Out, We Get Back.  What we think about ourselves becomes the truth for us. I believe that everyone, myself included, is responsible for everything in our lives, the best and the worst. Every thought we think is creating our future. Each one of us creates our experiences by our thoughts and our feelings. The thoughts we think and the words we speak create our experiences.”

Her books may be called “chicken soup for the soul,” but isn’t that exactly what we need sometimes? A warm voice reminding us that we are enough, that healing is possible, and that life can be beautiful again.

You Can Heal Your Life walks us through every stage of existence—childhood pain, love’s struggles, career challenges, health worries, aging, and even the fear of death. Louise’s message is simple but powerful: change your beliefs, and you will change your life.

This “chicken soup” has comforted millions, given them strength, and helped them step into new beginnings.

💖 A Gentle Reminder

If you feel lost, unworthy, or stuck in a cycle of pain—Louise’s story is a light in the darkness. Her life teaches us that healing begins not from the outside, but from within.

No obstacle is too great. No past is too broken. Deep within each of us lies an infinite potential waiting to bloom. When we dare to change our thoughts and love ourselves, life unfolds in colors we never imagined.

Believe it: just like Louise Hay, you too can heal your life—and create a future filled with peace, love, and joy.

Here is the link for the E-book.

Click to access You%20Can%20Heal%20your%20Life%20-%20Louise%20L.%20Hay.pdf

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/09/03/louise-hay-from-pain-to-healing-from-healing-to-helping-the-world/

Nobel Prize Research Reminds Us: Don’t Stay Up Late!

linda changLeave a comment

When the 2017 Nobel Prize in Medicine was announced, many were surprised—it focused on something that touches all of us: our biological clock.

Three scientists—Jeffrey C. Hall, Michael Rosbash, and Michael W. Young—received the award for discovering how our bodies keep time at the molecular level. In simple terms, they revealed how our “internal clock” works, and why disrupting it can be so damaging to our health.

This clock silently manages almost everything in the body—when we feel sleepy or alert, our body temperature, hormone levels, and even how our cells repair themselves. But when we stay up too late, this delicate system is thrown off balance, and the consequences can be serious.

Their research found that:

  • Staying up late disrupts the body clock, paving the way for illness.
  • Lack of sleep can cause the brain to “eat itself”—astrocytes, specialized brain cells, begin devouring synapses.
  • If circadian-regulating genes fail, the risk of tumors increases.

The clear takeaway from this Nobel Prize-winning research? A familiar piece of advice: Don’t stay up late!

Yes, it’s something our parents, teachers, and elders have reminded us about countless times. But now, there’s a Nobel Prize—and 9 million Swedish kronor —to back it up.

Ancient Wisdom Meets Modern Science

Interestingly, the idea of the “body clock” isn’t new. Thousands of years ago, Traditional Chinese Medicine described how energy, or Qi, flows through the body in cycles. The 24-hour day was divided into twelve two-hour intervals, with each period linked to a specific organ system.

For example:

  • Between 1 a.m. and 3 a.m., the liver is at peak function, cleansing the blood and preparing the body for renewal.
  • From 3 a.m. onward, energy shifts to organs that support digestion and daily activity, such as the lungs, large intestine, and stomach.
  • By mid-afternoon, energy begins to flow inward again to support organs that restore and maintain the system, such as the kidneys and pericardium.

Understanding this Body-Energy Clock can help us better manage our sleep, meals, and mood. Modern science now echoes this ancient wisdom: align with your natural rhythms, and you’ll thrive.

The Role of Melatonin

Science also tells us about melatonin, often called the “sleep hormone.” Melatonin is vital for regulating the sleep-wake cycle. Levels begin to rise soon after darkness falls, peak between 2 a.m. and 4 a.m., and then gradually decline.

This explains why going to bed too late often leads to trouble falling asleep, and why sleep after 4 a.m. tends to be light and restless. For the best rest, it’s ideal to sleep between 11 p.m. and 4 a.m., when melatonin levels are highest and most restorative.

The Benefits of Sleeping Early and Rising Early

Research consistently shows that early sleepers and early risers enjoy powerful health benefits:

  • Better mental health: Early risers of all ages report more positive emotions and greater self-rated health.
  • Reduced risk of depression: A U.S. study found that going to bed just one hour earlier lowers depression risk by 23%.
  • Weight management: Staying up late disrupts hormones, leading to weight gain. Going to bed on time, combined with early rising and regular exercise, helps maintain a healthy weight.
  • Stronger immunity: Adequate sleep enhances immune function, reducing the risk of infections and chronic diseases such as heart disease, hypertension, diabetes, and stroke.
  • Sharper thinking: Early sleepers and early risers score 30% higher on word-association tests compared to night owls.

The message from both Nobel Prize-winning research and ancient health wisdom is clear: respect your biological clock.

Going to bed early and waking up early is not just about feeling more refreshed—it protects the brain, strengthens the body, improves mood, and may even add years to your life. So tonight, give yourself the gift of sleep—it’s worth more than 5 million!

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/08/28/nobel-prize-research-reminds-us-dont-stay-up-late/

How I Quit Smoking After 20+ Years — Thanks to the Buddha Dharma of H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III

linda changLeave a comment

During my school days, I unknowingly picked up the bad habit of smoking. After entering the workforce as a designer, the nature of my job required prolonged thinking, which led me to smoke incessantly. Sometimes, I would smoke over 60 cigarettes a day, staining my fingers a light yellow. The smell of tobacco lingered on my hands, and even when I brought them close to my nose, I could still sense the scent. Despite knowing how harmful smoking was to my health, I simply couldn’t quit.

I always felt that smoking was a form of enjoyment. Being frugal, I would smoke cheaper cigarettes when alone and keep a better pack for social occasions. Smoking also came with a significant financial cost. In my early working years, money was tight, and I couldn’t always afford cigarettes. Often, I bought just one or two loose cigarettes. Sometimes, I would smoke a cigarette in multiple sittings—lighting it, taking a couple of puffs, extinguishing it, and repeating the process. When I had no cigarettes, I would secretly pick up discarded cigarette butts to smoke. Occasionally, I even picked up others’ cigarette butts—how miserable it was just to satisfy my smoking habit! Even now, an old classmate of mine still teases me about how, back in the day, I would visit him for a meal when I was broke. After eating, I would crave a cigarette and would blurt out, “A cigarette after a meal is better than being an immortal!” This classmate, who never smoked, still brings up this incident to mock me.

Later on, although I could afford cigarettes, I knew deep down that smoking was not a good thing. The numerous “No Smoking” signs everywhere made it clear that smoking was frowned upon. I couldn’t smoke freely in public and had to step outside no-smoking areas when I couldn’t resist the urge. Even at home, I couldn’t smoke at ease. To avoid annoying my family and exposing them to secondhand smoke, I had to hide away on the balcony to smoke. This furtive way of smoking made me feel like a thief, carrying a constant sense of guilt.

“You’re just taking a puff of smoke into your lungs and then exhaling it—what’s the point?” My wife often said this to me. She was right; there was no real meaning to it. I was spending money to harm my own health. So, I made up my mind to quit smoking!

However, quitting a habit cultivated over twenty years was no easy task. I tried every quitting method I heard of—keeping snacks in my pocket to replace cigarettes, writing a quit-smoking journal, telling people I was quitting so they could hold me accountable, and even just holding a cigarette without lighting it. I experimented with all these strategies. At best, I lasted four or five days; my longest attempt lasted three to four months. But I always ended up relapsing. Every time I finished a cigarette, I immediately regretted it and resolved to quit again. This cycle repeated endlessly—I quit, then smoked again, and then quit again. I both hated and loved smoking. I wanted to quit but just couldn’t. Quitting smoking was truly not easy.

After so many failed attempts, no one believed I could do it anymore. People would just smile knowingly when I mentioned quitting, and even I lost hope in myself. But then, due to an extraordinarily auspicious connection, I encountered the Buddha Dharma as taught by H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III, who is no different from Shakyamuni Buddha. This profoundly touched my heart. I realized that this bad habit was leading me toward degeneration, so I firmly resolved to quit smoking.

I started using the money I would have spent on cigarettes to buy fruits as offerings to the Buddhas and Bodhisattvas, increasing my merits. Sometimes, I used it to release captive animals or to show filial respect to my parents. This time, quitting smoking felt surprisingly effortless. My wife was amazed and praised the power of Buddha Dharma, marveling at how I had truly succeeded in quitting.

Once, a Dharma brother was setting up a Buddhist shrine in his factory. A highly virtuous master traveled from afar to lead the ceremony. More than thirty of us gathered to celebrate, and everything was prepared—except that we couldn’t find a lighter to light the lamps. No one in the group smoked, so no one had a lighter. Eventually, someone had to step outside to borrow one. At that moment, I was struck by how remarkable Buddhist disciples were—out of so many people, not a single one smoked. I thought, Surely, many of them, like me, must have quit smoking. When I asked a fellow practitioner if he had a lighter, he just smiled knowingly and shook his head.

After quitting smoking, I no longer coughed or felt nauseous when brushing my teeth in the morning. I felt lighter, both physically and mentally. However, the habit formed over nearly thirty years didn’t just disappear overnight. For a long time—sometimes even one or two years later—after dinner, I would pace back and forth on the balcony, feeling like I was supposed to be doing something but not knowing what. Only after thinking for a while would I realize, Oh! It’s the old smoking habit. This proved just how difficult it is to break ingrained habits. Truly, “A leopard cannot change its spots.”

Yet, after much effort, I finally broke the long-standing smoking habit. I realized that smoking was simply a habit, and not smoking was also a habit. H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III teaches: “All phenomena become natural through habit.” That is why we must be cautious not to develop bad habits, as they can easily become ingrained. Instead, we should cultivate good habits, no matter how small, and continue to practice them.

After I quit smoking, my old friends were impressed: “You have incredible willpower!” “You’re so determined!” Receiving praise naturally felt good—much better than being criticized. I would joyfully reply, “Yes, I quit! I know this was the power of Buddha Dharma.”

Indeed, life is like a puff of smoke—it quickly vanishes into thin air. No matter how enjoyable, it is nothing more than fleeting mist. Only by maintaining good health can we have a future. Now, whenever I hold a cigarette in my hand, I smile at my past ignorance and feel grateful for my present success.

Today, as I embark on a new journey, how could I ever harm myself again? I shall light an eternal lamp in my heart, illuminating the path of my Buddhist practice with the radiant light of wisdom.

Written by: Ming Xun
Edited by: Bodhi Seed & Others

How I Quit Smoking After 20+ Years — Thanks to the Buddha Dharma of H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III

Link: https://dharma-hhdorjechangbuddhaiii.org/how-i-quit-smoking-after-20-years-thanks-to-the-buddha-dharma-of-h-h-dorje-chang-buddha-iii/

#DorjeChangBuddhaIII #HHDorjeChangBuddhaIII #Buddha #Dharma #BuddhaDharma #QuitSmoking #Smoking