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Can a Cow Painted on a Wall Give Milk?

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Indian monk milking a painted cow

Bodhisattva Candrakīrti: Milking a Cow in a Painting

Recently, I came across a video about Bodhisattva Candrakīrti, one of the great Buddhist masters of ancient India.

The video told a remarkable story: according to Buddhist tradition, Candrakīrti was able to obtain milk from a cow that existed only in a painting.

When I first heard this, I was amazed.

How could a cow painted on a wall or in a picture possibly give milk?

Curious, I looked into the story and discovered that it is more than a fascinating Buddhist legend. Behind it stands a great master in the history of Buddhism and, more importantly, a profound teaching about emptiness.

Candrakīrti lived in India around the sixth or seventh century. He was one of the most important masters of the Madhyamaka, or Middle Way, school of Buddhist philosophy, and an important commentator on the teachings of Nagarjuna.

His best-known work, Madhyamakāvatāra (Introduction to the Middle Way), became an important text for the study of Madhyamaka philosophy.

Candrakīrti deeply explored a central Buddhist teaching:

All things arise in dependence upon causes and conditions. Nothing exists with an independent, permanent, unchanging essence.

This is one of the meanings of emptiness.

According to a story preserved in Buddhist tradition, Candrakīrti once lived and practiced at a monastery. Because some people did not understand his way of practicing, they misunderstood him.

Later, he was given responsibility for providing milk for the monastery. It is said that Candrakīrti released the cows into the forest, allowing them to roam freely.

Yet somehow, milk continued to appear at the monastery.

People were puzzled.

If the cows were far away in the forest, where was the milk coming from?

Some people secretly followed Candrakīrti.

According to the traditional story, they saw him approach a painting of a cow—and somehow draw milk from the painted cow.

It is an extraordinary story.

But perhaps the most important question is not whether the event sounds miraculous.

It is what the story invites us to think about.

We normally think:

A real cow can give milk.

A painted cow cannot.

That seems obvious.

Yet the story of the painted cow quietly asks us:

What exactly do we mean when we say something is “real”?

This question goes to the heart of Candrakīrti’s teachings on emptiness.

Emptiness does not mean that nothing exists.

Rather, it means that things do not exist independently, permanently, or entirely on their own. Everything depends upon causes, conditions, relationships, and the way we designate and understand it.

For example, someone is called a “teacher” because there are students. Someone is called a “parent” because there is a child. These identities arise through relationships and conditions.

When we look more deeply, we begin to see that many things we regard as fixed and permanent are actually dependent upon countless conditions.

What I find most meaningful about this story is that it encourages us not to be too quick to conclude:

Person meditating with illustrated thoughts about present moment, past memories, future dreams, sensations, and emotions

“Things must always be this way.”

“That is absolutely impossible.”

“I already know the answer.”

Our understanding of the world is often shaped by our past experiences, habits, assumptions, and fixed ideas.

Buddhist practice encourages us to hold our views more lightly—to have less attachment, more observation; less prejudice, more humility.

When we loosen our attachment to the belief that “I must be right,” we may begin to see possibilities and truths that we could not see before.

So when I think about the story of Candrakīrti and the painted cow, I no longer see it simply as a miraculous tale.

To me, it feels more like a doorway.

A doorway inviting us to question our ideas about reality, to recognize our own attachments, and to explore the deeper wisdom of dependent origination and emptiness.

Perhaps the story was never meant simply to leave us amazed.

Perhaps it is inviting us to look more deeply.

Just when we think we have completely understood the world, there may still be much more for us to discover.

And perhaps that is one of the most beautiful lessons we can receive from the wisdom of Bodhisattva Candrakīrti.

Link: https://peacelilysite.com/2026/09/09/bodhisattva-candrakirti-milking-a-cow-in-a-painting/

Source： https://www.fjdh.cn/wumin/2009/04/06452346128.html?utm_source=chatgpt.com， https://tricycle.org/magazine/truth-about-truth/?utm_source=chatgpt.com， https://baike.baidu.com/item/%E6%9C%88%E7%A7%B0/9958686

The Yongle Bell: A 600-Year-Old Marvel of Chinese Civilization

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At the Ancient Bell Museum in Beijing stands one of China’s most remarkable national treasures—the Yongle Bell（永乐大钟）.

Commissioned by the Yongle Emperor, Zhu Di （永乐皇帝朱棣）, the bell is believed to have been designed and supervised by Yao Guangxiao（姚广孝）, a highly respected Buddhist monk whose Dharma name was Daoyan（道衍）. Yao Guangxiao was much more than a religious figure. He was also a scholar, strategist, and trusted adviser to Emperor Zhu Di.

Their relationship began before Zhu Di became emperor, when he was still the Prince of Yan. Yao Guangxiao became one of his trusted advisers and continued to serve him after Zhu Di ascended the throne. He was closely involved in major projects of the Yongle era, including the construction of Beijing and the compilation of the monumental Yongle Encyclopedia（永乐大典）.

It is remarkable that one of the most ambitious Buddhist bells in Chinese history was connected to a monk who stood so close to the emperor and played such an important role in the cultural and political life of the Ming Dynasty.

Cast during the Yongle era, around 1420, the Yongle Bell stands approximately 6.75 meters (22 feet) high and weighs about 46.5 metric tons (over 102,000 pounds).

More than six centuries later, it remains an extraordinary testament to the sophistication of ancient Chinese craftsmanship.

A Casting Technique That Seems Almost Impossible

How could ancient craftsmen have created such a gigantic bell more than 600 years ago?

The Yongle Bell was produced using a traditional Chinese technique known as the pit-mold ceramic casting method, or clay-mold method.

First, the craftsmen dug a massive casting pit several meters deep. Inside the pit, they constructed the bell’s inner mold using clay and other organic materials, while the outer ceramic mold was built up layer by layer.

One of the most fascinating features is the Pulao-shaped bell knob at the top.

In Chinese mythology, Pulao is one of the nine legendary sons of the dragon. It was believed to have a powerful voice, which is why its image became associated with bells.

The Pulao knob of the Yongle Bell was reportedly cast separately using the lost-wax casting technique. It was then carefully incorporated into the casting mold so that it became an integral part of the finished bell.

Then came the most critical moment.

Dozens of furnaces were fired simultaneously. Molten bronze, glowing like rivers of fire, flowed through specially prepared channels and surged into the enormous mold.

The operation demanded extraordinary coordination. Temperature, the flow of molten metal, pouring time, and the structure of the molds all had to be carefully controlled.

A single major error could have ruined the entire project.

The successful casting of the Yongle Bell was therefore an extraordinary engineering and organizational achievement.

The bell’s achievement lies not only in its enormous size.

Scientific analysis shows that its alloy contains copper, tin, and lead as its principal metals, along with smaller amounts of elements including gold, silver, and nickel.

The carefully formulated alloy contributed to the bell’s strength, toughness, ductility, and acoustic properties.

A bell of this size must support its own enormous weight while withstanding repeated powerful impacts. If the metal were too brittle, cracks could develop; if the alloy composition were unsuitable, the bell’s resonance could also be affected.

Yet after more than 600 years, the Yongle Bell remains remarkably well preserved.

Its condition offers an impressive glimpse into the advanced metallurgical knowledge possessed by ancient Chinese craftsmen.

A “Bell of Scriptures”

If the bell’s size is astonishing, its inscriptions are even more extraordinary.

The inner and outer surfaces, as well as areas around the rim, are densely covered with Buddhist scriptures, sacred texts, and mantras.

According to historical descriptions, the bell contains more than 230,000 Chinese characters and Buddhist inscriptions.

Even more remarkable, these inscriptions were not carved onto the finished bell. They were incorporated directly into the casting process.

This meant that hundreds of thousands of characters had to be accurately prepared in the molds before the molten bronze was poured.

According to tradition, the inscriptions were associated with the celebrated Ming Dynasty calligrapher Shen Du. The characters display the dignified and elegant style associated with guan’ge ti, the formal calligraphic style favored by the imperial court.

To transform such delicate calligraphy into cast inscriptions, craftsmen had to reproduce the writing in the mold, creating corresponding recessed characters. After the molds were prepared and fired, molten bronze was poured into them, producing the raised inscriptions on the finished bell.

Imagine doing this without computers, laser engraving, digital typesetting, or modern precision machinery.

More than 230,000 characters had to be arranged across the curved surfaces of a gigantic bronze bell.

Every character had to be carefully formed and every line precisely positioned.

On one side was the art of the calligrapher.

On the other was the skill of the craftsman.

In the end, calligraphy, Buddhist scripture, and bronze became one.

The Yongle Bell is therefore not simply a gigantic bronze artifact.

It is almost like a Buddhist scripture cast in metal.

The Deep and Resonant Voice of the Bell

Perhaps the most captivating feature of the Yongle Bell is not what we see, but what we hear.

When struck by a massive bell striker, the thick bronze produces a deep, powerful, and extraordinarily sustained resonance.

According to accounts of its acoustic properties, under appropriate striking conditions, the resonance can continue for nearly three minutes. In the relatively quiet environment of ancient Beijing, its sound was reportedly capable of traveling for many kilometers.

Imagine Beijing more than six centuries ago.

At dawn, the first powerful note of the Yongle Bell rises into the air. Its deep, solemn sound travels beyond walls, streets, and fields, gradually fading into the distance.

The bell’s voice was not simply a means of marking time. It also carried religious meaning and occupied an important place in the spiritual culture of the period.

One Bell, Many Arts

The Yongle Bell brings together an extraordinary range of human skills.

Metallurgy transformed tons of raw materials into a strong and resilient bronze structure.

Casting technology made it possible to create an enormous bell with remarkable precision.

Calligraphy turned more than 230,000 characters into an intricate work of art.

Buddhist culture gave the inscriptions their profound spiritual meaning.

And acoustical craftsmanship gave the massive bronze its deep, sustained voice.

More than six centuries later, the Yongle Bell remains a remarkable achievement—not simply because of its size, but because of the extraordinary combination of engineering, artistry, religious culture, and craftsmanship embodied in a single object.

The Yongle Bell brings together the vision of an emperor, the knowledge of a scholar and Buddhist monk, the artistry of calligraphers, and the extraordinary skill of generations of craftsmen.

Standing before it today, one can see far more than a massive bronze bell.

One sees thousands of carefully formed characters, intricate craftsmanship, and the physical evidence of an ambitious undertaking carried out more than 600 years ago.

And then there is the sound.

A single strike can set this enormous bronze body into motion, allowing its resonance to linger long after the initial impact has disappeared.

The Yongle Bell is history cast in bronze, scripture transformed into art, and ancient craftsmanship given a voice.

It remains one of China’s extraordinary cultural treasures—and a remarkable achievement that deserves to be known and appreciated by people around the world.

Link：https://peacelilysite.com/2026/09/07/the-yongle-bell-a-600-year-old-marvel-of-chinese-civilization/

Source: https://zhuanlan.zhihu.com/p/547435529, https://wwj.beijing.gov.cn/bjww/wwjzzcslm/1737418/1738090/wwgs/325966413/index.html, https://news.cctv.com/program/tgkw/20040329/102069.shtml

From Invisibility Spell to Enlightened Master: The Wild Life of Nagarjuna

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A Tibetan depiction of Nagarjuna; the snakes are depicted as protectors around Nagarjuna’s head and the nagas rising out of the water are offering Buddhist sutras

Throughout the two-thousand-year history of Buddhism, if one were to ask which master’s life was the most thrilling and dramatic, the answer would undeniably be Nagarjuna Bodhisattva.

He was not only the founder of the Madhyamaka (Middle Way) school and a foundational pillar of Mahayana Buddhism, but also an enlightened master whose incredible wisdom was matched only by his extraordinary life story. Revered by later generations as the “Ancestor of Eight Schools,” this legendary figure actually began his youth walking a path of extreme rebellion and reckless indulgence.

Nagarjuna was born into a noble Brahmin family in Southern India, displaying gifts from an early age that far exceeded ordinary human limits. As a child, he possessed a photographic memory—listening to the four sacred Vedas of Brahmanism just once before reciting them by heart with a complete grasp of their deepest meanings. By the time he reached his youth, he had transformed into a true polymath, mastering everything from astronomy and geography to divination, worldly arts, and various esoteric sciences.

Young scholar studying maps and arcane instruments in a candlelit library

However, genius without wisdom often becomes fuel for pride and unchecked desire. Believing he had already learned everything the worldly realm had to offer, the young Nagarjuna gathered with three like-minded friends to ponder a fateful question: “Life is short, and we have already mastered all human knowledge. What is left for us to pursue?” Their conclusion was as absurd as it was dangerous—to pursue ultimate pleasure and indulge in every sensory distraction.

Determined to indulge without restrictions, the four young men sought out a sorcerer and learned the art of invisibility. Armed with this miraculous power, they brazenly snuck into the royal palace, engaging in reckless escapades and chaotic antics for months while plunging the court into fear and suspicion. Realizing something unnatural was occurring, the King devised a clever trap by ordering fine sand scattered across the palace hallways and gates to track the invisible intruders’ footprints.

When the four entered the palace once more, soldiers surrounded their footprints and swung their swords wildly through the air. Nagarjuna’s three friends were unable to dodge the blades and were executed on the spot. Showing quick thinking under intense pressure, Nagarjuna saved his own life by pressing himself tightly against the King’s throne—knowing the soldiers would never dare swing their swords near the monarch’s seat.

Watching his closest companions cut down in a flash of blood and terror, Nagarjuna experienced a profound, shocking epiphany:

“Desire is the root of suffering, the source of all calamity. Misconduct and defilement know no greater depth than this!”

In that single, terrifying moment, he saw through the illusion and danger of worldly desires, resolving to abandon his past and walk the path of virtue.

Immediately after escaping the palace, Nagarjuna renounced the worldly life and took monastic vows. He fully mastered the entire Tripitaka—the Buddhist canon—in a mere nine months. Unsatisfied with basic mastery, he journeyed deep into the snow-capped mountains to seek out renowned masters and broaden his spiritual horizons.

According to tradition, sensing that the teachings available in the human realm were incomplete, Nagarjuna was guided by the Great Naga (Dragon) Bodhisattva to the underwater Dragon Palace. Inside its vast scriptural library, he discovered profound, high-level Mahayana sutras, including the Avatamsaka Sutra (Flower Garland Sutra), which he brought back to the human world to spread among spiritual seekers.

From: https://lingyinsi.org/detail_5502.html

Upon his return, Nagarjuna authored countless seminal treatises that transformed Buddhist philosophy forever. He penned foundational texts such as the Mulamadhyamakakarika (Fundamental Verses on the Middle Way), the Twelve Door Treatise, and the Mahaprajnaparamita Upadesa (Commentary on the Great Perfection of Wisdom). Through these works, he formulated the profound doctrine of Dependent Origination and Emptiness (Pratītyasamutpāda and Śūnyatā), establishing the core philosophy of the Madhyamaka school while shattering the worldly attachments and misconceptions of his era.

Nagarjuna’s life is a remarkable journey from extreme pride and confusion to ultimate enlightenment. Through his own transformation, he proved to the world that delusion and awakening exist only a single thought apart. It was precisely that thrilling trial on the edge of life and death that forged his supreme wisdom to break all worldly attachments, ultimately creating one of the most revered spiritual grandmasters in human history.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/09/03/from-invisibility-spell-to-enlightened-master-the-wild-life-of-nagarjuna/

Why being “right” isn’t enough—and how true communication requires compassion, timing, and genuine benefit

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Beyond the Truth: The Buddha’s Wisdom on Sacred Speech

In daily life, we frequently hear people defend sharp or hurtful remarks with a familiar defense: “I’m just speaking the truth.”

We often operate under the assumption that as long as our statements are factually accurate, we are justified in ignoring the timing, the setting, and the recipient’s emotional capacity. Yet in the Abhaya Sutta (Majjhima Nikaya 58) of the Pali Canon, the Buddha offers a radically different perspective on communication: the true value of speech extends far beyond mere factual accuracy.

The story begins with a trap. Nigantha Nataputta, leader of the Jains, sought to publicly corner the Buddha. He instructed Prince Abhaya to pose a carefully engineered dilemma:

“Would the Tathagata utter speech that is displeasing or disagreeable to others?”

It seemed like an inescapable box:

  • If the Buddha answered “Yes,” the prince would argue that he was no different from any ordinary person who hurls harsh words and causes distress.
  • If the Buddha answered “No,” the prince would counter by pointing to instances where the Buddha severely rebuked Devadatta—words that were undeniably painful for Devadatta to hear.

Confident in his trap, Nigantha Nataputta boasted that the question would stick in the Buddha’s throat like a barbed nut—impossible to swallow and impossible to spit out.

When Prince Abhaya hosted the Buddha for a meal the next day and posed the question, the Buddha quietly dismantled the binary trap: “There is no single, one-sided answer to this matter.”

The Buddha refused to play by a rigid, two-dimensional rule. Whether a Master speaks is never determined solely by whether the listener will find the words pleasant.

Having neutralized the debate tactic, the Buddha turned toward a young child sitting near the prince and offered a deeply human metaphor.

He asked the prince: “If this young child were to accidentally put a sharp piece of wood or a pebble into his mouth, what would you do?”

The prince replied without hesitation that he would immediately try to extract it. If necessary, he would hook his finger into the child’s mouth to drag it out—even if it meant causing pain or drawing blood—because the object had to come out.

When the Buddha asked why he would do such a thing, the prince’s answer was simple: “Because of compassion for the child.”

With this single image, the debate shifted entirely.

Some truths are uncomfortable to hear, much like removing a foreign object from a child’s mouth brings temporary pain. But the criterion for speaking is never immediate comfort; it is long-term welfare. A loving father reaches into his child’s mouth not to assert dominance, nor to punish, but because leaving the pebble inside causes far greater harm.

Through this parable, the Buddha established three essential checkpoints that every word must pass before it is spoken:

  • Truthfulness: Is it grounded in fact? Words that are false are never spoken.
  • Benefit: Is it genuinely useful? Even if a statement is 100% true, if it brings no constructive benefit to the listener, it remains unsaid.
  • Timeliness: Is this the right moment? Only when a statement is both true and beneficial will a wise speaker choose the appropriate time to speak it.

In the Buddha’s framework, truth is merely the entrance requirement. If a statement is factually correct but unhelpful, ill-timed, or purely divisive, silence is the highest wisdom.

Looking Inward: Winning vs. Healing

The contrast between the two parties in this sutta highlights two very different motivations for speaking:

  • The Debate Strategy: Designed to corner, crush, and silence the other person—driven by the desire to win.
  • The Buddha’s Response: Designed like a parent rescuing a child from danger—driven by the desire to heal.

This distinction invites us to examine our own hearts before we speak “harsh truths” or offer sharp criticism:

Are we speaking because we genuinely want to help the other person suffer less, or are we simply trying to prove ourselves right and dominate the conversation?

True goodwill allows for necessary firmness, but it must always rest upon the foundation of truth, benefit, and proper timing. Practicing the wisdom of Right Speech is not just about holding our tongue—it is about refining our intent, ensuring that every word we release carries gentle yet steadfast compassion.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/09/02/why-being-right-isnt-enough-and-how-true-communication-requires-compassion-timing-and-genuine-benefit/

Floating High on Borrowed Wings: The Parable of the Monk and the Ghost

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In a world driven by metrics, social validation, and external applause, it is easy to mistake the platform we stand on for our own height.

A striking story from the Miscellaneous Parables Sutra (雜譬喻經) serves as a timeless reminder of what happens when we rely on borrowed support—and how genuine self-correction and gratitude can transform our lives.

Meditating monk floating above a mountain village with swirling spirit energy

The sutra tells of a monk expelled from his monastic community after committing a serious infraction. Cast out into the cold, he did not spend his solitude reflecting on his actions or feeling genuine remorse. Instead, he was consumed by anxiety, lamenting his lost veneration, the vanished daily offerings, and his ruined reputation.

During his aimless wandering, he encountered a ghost who was similarly miserable, having been banished by Vaisravana, the Heavenly Guardian King. Recognizing a shared plight, the ghost proposed a clever scheme:

“I am invisible to human eyes. I will lift you up and carry you on my back through the sky, creating the illusion that you are an enlightened saint who can fly. When the villagers marvel at your supernatural powers and shower you with rich offerings, we will split the rewards.”

The monk eagerly agreed to the trick.

When the villagers looked up and saw the monk floating effortlessly above their heads, they were stunned. Outraged at what they assumed was a grave mistake, they openly criticized the monastic community for exiling a “holy, enlightened master.” The villagers welcomed the monk back with grand celebrations, lavishing him with honor, luxury, and prestige.

Everyone marveled at how high he could fly, but not a single soul saw the invisible ghost holding him up from underneath.

The grand deception came to a sudden, tragic end. One day, while gliding majestically through the clouds above an admiring crowd, the ghost caught sight of Vaisravana’s celestial guards patrolling the sky. Panic-stricken, the ghost fled instantly to save itself, dropping the monk mid-air.

Deprived of his hidden foundation, the monk plummeted straight to the earth and died on impact. In a single heartbeat, the awe-inspiring elevation vanished, leaving behind only the stark reality of his fall.

This ancient parable holds profound lessons for navigating our modern lives:

1. Change Yourself; Don’t Fool Yourself with Tricks

Calming cortisol storm into peaceful light

When we make mistakes or face setbacks, our default ego response is often self-preservation: making excuses, masking weaknesses, or using superficial fixes to maintain a successful image.

  • The Trap: Relying on pretense or shortcuts creates an inherently fragile foundation. You might fool the world—and even convince yourself—for a short time, but unaddressed flaws will eventually lead to a catastrophic downfall.
  • The Wisdom: True strength demands radical self-honesty and sincere repentance. Growth begins the moment you stop managing impressions, admit your shortcomings, and commit to the quiet work of genuine internal reform.

2. Cultivate Deep Gratitude for Everyday Support

While the monk’s ghost was a force of deception, the story reminds us that no individual ever ascends entirely on their own strength.

  • The Reality: Our everyday accomplishments, safety, and comfort are upheld by a vast, unseen network: the dedication of our families, the collaboration of colleagues, societal infrastructure, and nature itself.
  • The Wisdom: Approach life with profound humility and gratitude. Recognizing that you are constantly sustained by the effort of others keeps the ego in check and prevents you from mistaking collective support for personal superiority.

3. Cultivate True Inner Substance Through Buddhist Practice

In Buddhism, spiritual practice (xūxíng) is not a performance designed to win public admiration, gain influence, or secure material comfort. Its core purpose is twofold: self-liberation (zìlì) and the compassionate liberation of others (lìtā).

The Practical Lesson: External applause, reputation, and titles are merely temporary, borrowed conditions. When life strips away all external privileges, your true capability is measured by your internal substance: your moral integrity, emotional stability, and capacity for wisdom under pressure.

Self-Liberation (Enduring Peace): Authentic practice focuses on purifying the mind from the “Three Poisons”—greed, anger, and ignorance. It is about understanding the nature of impermanence so that you are no longer a slave to praise, wealth, or worldly status. By upholding ethical precepts (Sīla) and cultivating deep mental stability (Samādhi), you gain the true ability to transcend the cycles of anxiety and suffering (Samsāra).

The Bodhisattva Path (Wisdom & Compassion): True practice extends outward through Bodhicitta—the boundless vow to help all sentient beings break free from their own pain. When your actions are driven by genuine wisdom (Prajñā) and selfless compassion, you build an unshakeable spiritual center that remains calm, composed, and helpful to others regardless of external circumstances.

When external validation fades and all borrowed support is withdrawn, what remains is your actual inner substance: your ethics, emotional stability, and capacity for wisdom.

When the applause fades and external support steps back, what internal foundation are you left standing on?

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2026/08/28/floating-high-on-borrowed-wings-the-parable-of-the-monk-and-the-ghost/

Beyond Logic: How Compassion Subdued Ancient India’s Sharpest Mind

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Aśvaghoṣa (Japanese Kamakura period, 13th century – http://burkecollection.org/catalogue/10-memy%C5%8D-bosatsu)

In the brilliant expanse of Buddhist history, one name stands out with singular brilliance. He was not only the 12th Patriarch in the Zen lineage originating from ancient India, but also a literary genius who captured the hearts of a continent through the power of poetry and music: Aśvaghoṣa (known in Chinese tradition as Bodhisattva Horse-Nneigh).

This is the legendary story of how a once-arrogant Brahmin prodigy suffered a dramatic defeat in a battle of wits, entered the Buddhist monastic order, and ultimately became a towering master who galvanized the rise of Mahayana Buddhism.

Born into a noble Brahmin family in Eastern India, young Aśvaghoṣa possessed exceptional intelligence. He mastered classic texts, arts, and above all, the razor-sharp logic of public debate. In ancient India, intellectual debates were high-stakes events where the defeated party was expected to convert and become a disciple of the victor. Driven by youthful pride, Aśvaghoṣa swept through Central India, issuing a brazen challenge to the entire Buddhist community:

“If any monk can defeat me in debate, I will sever my own head in apology! But if no one dares face me, every monastery in this region must cease striking the ghanta—the traditional wooden blocks and bells used to assemble the sangha!”

Faced with his fierce logic and intimidating rhetoric, no local monk dared step forward. As a result, the once-vibrant monasteries fell silent. Morning gongs and evening bells ceased, and the public prestige of Buddhism plummeted.

Hearing of this crisis from Northern India, an venerable elder named Venerable Pārśva knew that if Aśvaghoṣa’s arrogance went unchecked, the true teachings of the Mahayana tradition would fail to flourish. Despite his advanced age, Pārśva traveled vast distances on foot to answer the challenge.

On the day of the grand debate, the arena was packed with the king, ministers, and tens of thousands of onlookers. Observing the frail, white-haired elder, the young prodigy felt immediate condescension. “Venerable monk,” Aśvaghoṣa asked arrogantly, “what shall be the stakes of our debate?” Pārśva calmly replied, “The loser shall become the disciple of the winner, shaving his head and following him for life.” Aśvaghoṣa readily agreed.

Aśvaghoṣa invited the elder to speak first. Pārśva uttered a single, deceptively simple statement of blessing:

“May the world enjoy peace, may the king live a long life, may the land be rich and joyful, and may all disasters cease.”

A hush fell over the crowd. Aśvaghoṣa froze.

By the rules of debate, Aśvaghoṣa was required to refute his opponent’s opening premise. Yet, Pārśva had stated a benevolent blessing for the country and its sovereign. If Aśvaghoṣa tried to refute it, he would violate public ethics, offend the reigning king present in the crowd, and bear the stigma of cursing his own land. But if he agreed with the statement, he could not break the argument, which meant instant defeat.

Aśvaghoṣa searched his mind, only to realize that his formidable logical framework was completely powerless against a statement rooted entirely in compassion, wisdom, and broad goodwill. Pale and humbled, he bowed deeply to the elder: “I have lost. Your wisdom is wrapped in profound compassion. I will honor my promise.” Pārśva had subdued Aśvaghoṣa’s pride not through heated argument, but through calm, unassailable composure. Aśvaghoṣa shaved his head on the spot and officially entered the Buddhist order.

Under the guidance of Pārśva and his successor Puṇyayaśas, Aśvaghoṣa displayed astonishing spiritual insight. He fully digested the Buddhist Canon (Tripitaka) and channeled his pre-existing artistic and literary talents into spreading the Dharma.

Monk reading a glowing scroll among four tearful horses in cathedral hall

The origin of his name—Aśvaghoṣa, literally meaning “Horse’s Neigh”—is tied to a celebrated event. When King Kaniṣka of the Kushan Empire conquered Central India, he demanded indemnity. Instead of vast fortunes of gold or silver, the King requested only two treasures: the sacred Alms Bowl of the Buddha, and Master Aśvaghoṣa.

To demonstrate the master’s sublime virtue to skeptical court officials, the King conducted a test. Seven warhorses were locked away and starved of food and water for six straight days. On the seventh day, a crowd gathered. Fresh, sweet grass was placed right in front of the starving horses, while Aśvaghoṣa took the high seat to chant and preach the Dharma.

An astonishing scene unfolded: despite their intense hunger, the seven horses did not even lower their heads to eat. Instead, they stood transfixed, listening intently to the serene, compassionate melody of Aśvaghoṣa’s voice, eventually shedding tears of emotion. Moved by how his sacred chants could touch even the animal realm, the world reverently honored him as Aśvaghoṣa Bodhisattva.

Following King Kaniṣka north, Aśvaghoṣa reached the peak of his creative energy. Understanding that rigid dogma rarely moves the hearts of ordinary people, he pioneered the use of literature and music as tools for spiritual education.

His greatest masterpiece, the Buddhacarita (Acts of the Buddha), is an epic narrative poem detailing the life of the Buddha from birth, renunciation, and enlightenment to his final Parinirvana. Characterized by elegant imagery and deep emotional resonance, it became a pinnacle of classical Sanskrit literature, introducing countless readers to the beauty of Buddhist philosophy. Furthermore, as the trusted spiritual mentor to King Kaniṣka, he played a central role in presiding over the Fourth Buddhist Council, solidifying the theoretical foundation of Mahayana Buddhism.

Aśvaghoṣa’s life is a timeless story of arrogance yielding to genuine wisdom. In his youth, he sought to conquer the world with sharp intellect, yet when confronted with true spiritual depth, he chose to surrender to compassion. By subduing his ego and dedicating his creative gifts to all living beings, he transformed from a defensive debater into a compassionate artist whose voice moved both human hearts and nature alike.

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Before You Complain Today, Read This

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Before You Complain Today, Read This

We often hear people complain that life is not going their way: their salary is not high enough, their house is not big enough, or their luck is not good enough. Their brows are furrowed as though the entire world were working against them. Yet, when we look carefully at their circumstances, their bodies are healthy, their families are safe, and they have food to eat and clothes to wear, we may wonder: Why are they filled with so much dissatisfaction?

Many people spend their lives taking their blessings for granted.

Human beings have a peculiar tendency: we quickly grow accustomed to what we possess yet remain constantly preoccupied with what we lack. When we are healthy, we rarely think of effortless breathing as a gift. Only when a cold leaves us congested do we understand how precious it is to breathe freely. When we are young, we seldom consider strong and agile legs a blessing. Only when our knees begin to ache do we miss the freedom of running.

Happiness is much the same. It quietly surrounds us and seems as natural as the air we breathe. Only after it is lost do we suddenly realize that it was there all along.

I once knew a friend who had just recovered from a serious illness. In the past, he often complained—about the demands of his job, his limited income, and the dullness of everyday life. Yet after leaving the hospital, he seemed like a different person. The morning sunlight moved him deeply. A simple bowl of plain rice porridge brought him contentment. The sound of his child’s laughter brought tears to his eyes.

He said:

“While I was lying in the hospital bed, I could think of nothing else. I only wanted to recover—to be able to walk normally and eat normally again. Now that I have regained these things, I finally understand that an ordinary life is the greatest blessing of all.”

This reminds me of a teaching given by Namo H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III in Philosophical Sayings About Worldly Matters:

“A person not appreciative of the good life he is living is one who has forgotten his past miseries. A person in good health is not aware of its blessings until he loses it.”

This means that some people live amid blessings without recognizing them. Although their circumstances are good in many ways, they remain dissatisfied, finding fault with one thing after another. They are filled with complaints and self-pity.

The main reason is that they have become immersed in favorable conditions and have forgotten the existence of hardship. While enjoying happiness, they forget the difficulties they once endured. In the same way, strong and healthy people often fail to understand the suffering of illness. They neglect to protect their health and do not cherish their strong bodies. Only after falling ill—confined to bed, unable to move, and without an appetite—do they finally understand the joy and blessing of good health.

The Buddha has long revealed this truth to the world. Regrettably, not everyone has the good fortune to respectfully listen to the authentic Buddha Dharma personally taught by Namo H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III. Many people pass through life in confusion and unawareness. Only when illness comes do they understand the value of health, and only after something is lost do they recognize the happiness they once possessed.

Those who fail to appreciate their blessings may not necessarily be ungrateful by nature. Perhaps they have simply forgotten that adversity exists. Having grown accustomed to favorable circumstances, they begin to regard them as something they are naturally entitled to. Having forgotten their former hardships, they become blind to the peace and stability before them.

It is like someone who has lived for so long in a room filled with orchids that they no longer notice the fragrance. In the same way, those who remain surrounded by happiness for too long may cease to recognize it.

In truth, happiness does not require luxurious clothing, fine food, fame, or worldly success. It is hidden within every ordinary day: waking in the morning without illness, having a home to return to at night, having food when hungry, clothing when cold, and someone to rely upon when weary.

May we all pause in our habit of complaining. Tonight, before going to sleep, take a moment to count what you possessed today: one easy breath, one warm meal, one word spoken and answered—and the opportunity to learn the authentic Buddha Dharma.

Then quietly remind yourself:

This, too, is a blessing.

Written by Yijie Xue

Learn more about H.H. Dorje Chang Buddha III

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Eternal Devotion and Ultimate Liberation: The Sacred Bond of Mahākāśyapa and Bhaddā Kapilānī

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In the mundane world, the ultimate idea of romance is often expressed as “holding hands and growing old together.” However, in Buddhist scriptures, the story of Venerable Mahākāśyapa and Nun Bhaddā Kapilānī illuminates a love that far transcends worldly passion. It is a grand and heroic tale of two souls who guarded each other, practiced purity across lifetimes, and ultimately attained Arhatship together under the guidance of the Buddha, achieving true liberation from the cycle of birth and death.

Their karmic bond for liberation began in the distant era of Vipassī Buddha. At that time, there was a seven-jeweled stupa enshrined with the Buddha’s relics, but the gold leaf on the face of the Buddha statue had peeled off and fallen into disrepair. A poor young woman felt deep sorrow upon seeing this and vowed to restore the statue with gold leaf, though she lacked sufficient funds. Mahākāśyapa, who was a skilled goldsmith in that life, praised her noble vow and joined hands with her to complete the restoration. Through this magnificent merit, both of them radiated a purplish-golden light from their bodies for ninety-one kalpas (eons) that followed. Reborn repeatedly into noble families, they often married and continually supported each other on the path of spiritual practice.

In their final life during the time of Śākyamuni Buddha, Mahākāśyapa was born into a wealthy family in Magadha (named Pippali). From a young age, he felt a deep aversion to worldly desires and longed for spiritual truth, strongly resisting his parents’ pressure to marry. To delay the marriage, he cast a statue of a breathtakingly beautiful maiden out of pure gold and told his parents: “I will only marry if you can find a woman who looks exactly like this golden statue.” Unbeknownst to him, his parents sent searchers throughout the land, and in Vaiśālī, they found Bhaddā Kapilānī, whose beauty and grace surpassed even the golden statue itself.

On their wedding night, however, both newlyweds sat in deep sorrow. When they opened their hearts to each other, they realized that both harbored a profound wish to renounce the worldly life and practice the Dharma. Together, they made a silent pact: to remain husband and wife in name only, sleep in separate beds, and observe immaculate purity. They upheld this sacred vow quietly for twelve years.

After their parents passed away, Mahākāśyapa decided it was time to leave home in search of an enlightened master. Before departing, he promised Bhaddā: “When I find a true, fully enlightened master, I will return to bring you onto the path with me.” Shortly after, Mahākāśyapa met Śākyamuni Buddha at Rājagṛha. Moved by the Buddha’s supreme virtue, he was ordained and attained Arhatship in just eight days, eventually becoming the Buddha’s foremost disciple in “Dhūta (ascetic) practices.”

When the Buddha permitted the establishment of the Bhikṣuṇī (nun) order, Mahākāśyapa fulfilled his promise and helped Bhaddā enter the monastic order. After her ordination, Bhaddā’s celestial beauty initially brought unwanted gossip and rumors from the worldly public. Deeply humbled, she chose to stay indoors and practice with unwavering diligence day and night. Ultimately, she severed all afflictions and attained Arhatship. The Buddha himself praised Bhaddā Kapilānī as being foremost among his female disciples in the recollection of past lives (Divine Recollection).

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💡 Inspirations for the Modern World

  • Elevating Attachment into Mutual Accomplishment:Worldly love often comes with possessiveness, control, and attachment, which inevitably lead to endless anxiety and bondage. The story of Mahākāśyapa and Bhaddā Kapilānī presents a higher realm of love: transforming affection into mutual support on the spiritual journey. True devotion lies in walking alongside one another toward awakening and ultimate freedom.
  • The Immutable Power of Purity and Precepts:In a world filled with temptation and distraction, their twelve-year commitment to pure celibacy demonstrates the profound strength of vows and moral discipline.
  • Wisdom in Facing Adversity and Criticism:When Bhaddā Kapilānī faced misunderstanding and rumors due to her appearance, she did not waste energy arguing or sinking into despair. Instead, she channeled the adversity into motivation for deeper practice. This teaches us that turning inward and practicing in quiet contemplation is the highest form of wisdom when overcoming life’s challenges.

The journey of Mahākāśyapa and Bhaddā Kapilānī breaks through conventional boundaries of love and marriage. In the realm of red dust, they were soulmates; on the path to liberation, they were noble companions. Their story is not only a legendary romance of quiet purity beyond life and death, but also a gentle beacon pointing toward clarity, wisdom, and liberation for anyone seeking a peaceful sanctuary for their soul.

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The Meditation Mat Is Secretly Loving You Back: A Gentle Guide to Remodeling Your Stress

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🧘‍♀️ The Science and Tenderness on the Meditation Mat: Why Deep Meditation Brings Healing and Ultimate Serenity to the Soul

Have you ever had a night like this?
You are clearly lying in bed, but your brain feels like a movie projector that won’t turn off. It frantically rewinds today’s stressors while rehearsing tomorrow’s anxieties. Even though your surroundings are pitch black and silent, there is a lingering, inexplicable restlessness and tension deep in your heart.

The pace of modern life is simply too fast. Our bodies and souls are like racing cars with the gas pedals slammed into the floorboard, on the verge of falling apart.

As a result, more and more people are choosing to sit cross-legged, close their eyes, and seek a sanctuary in the deep meditation of ancient traditions. Remarkably, when that deep, slow breath settles into your lower abdomen, the profound peace that washes over you is neither an escape from reality nor a mere psychological illusion.

Modern science tells us, with gentle and irrefutable medical evidence: the very moment you choose to sit down, your body undergoes a profound physiological remodeling from the inside out. It is secretly loving you back in the most scientific way possible.

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In daily life, as we constantly navigate work and interpersonal relationships, our brains are flooded with high-speed, high-tension Beta waves. This is a survival mode—always ready to fight—and it is the root cause of chronic anxiety and insomnia.

In the lens of Functional Magnetic Resonance Imaging (fMRI), the “focus” and “awareness” practiced during deep meditation reveal a staggering capacity for self-healing:

  • A Gentle Shift in Frequency: As you gently subtract your chaotic thoughts, your brain quickly sheds the anxious Beta waves and switches to peaceful Alpha waves. If you drift into a deeper meditative state, it even taps into Theta waves, which represent profound relaxation, bursts of intuition, and universal love. This transition is like turning off a noisy, jarring rock concert and switching to the ethereal silence of a deep forest.
  • Shrinking “Fear,” Strengthening “Reason”: In long-term meditators, the amygdala—the brain’s alarm center responsible for generating fear, anxiety, and feelings of grievance—physically shrinks. Meanwhile, the prefrontal cortex, which governs emotional regulation, decision-making, and focus, thickens in gray matter. Meditation is a physical restructuring. You are quite literally reshaping a brain that is resilient, secure, and less prone to emotional wounds.

🫁 Activating Your Body’s “Self-Healing Brake System” —— Rebalancing the Autonomic Nervous System

Modern bodies often live in a state of chronic sympathetic over-activation. Our “fight-or-flight” response is stuck on high gear, causing rapid heart rates, elevated blood pressure, and locked muscles. Our bodies mistakenly believe we are facing constant, mortal danger.

The heart of meditation always returns to that subtle yet continuous practice of “observing the breath.” This slow, diaphragmatic breathing is the ultimate master switch for your autonomic nervous system:

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  • A One-Touch Activation for the Vagus Nerve: When you slow your breath down to about 5 to 7 breaths per minute, the deep movement of your diaphragm gently stretches and stimulates the vagus nerve—the longest cranial nerve in the human body. It acts like a tender messenger, sending a wave of reassurance through your entire system: “You are home. You are safe. It is okay to let go now.”
  • Wrapping Your Heartbeat and Blood Pressure in a Warm Embrace: As the parasympathetic nervous system (your body’s natural brake) reclaims control, the heartbeat that was suspended by anxiety begins to smooth out. Your elevated blood pressure quietly drops. Subjectively, this physiological stabilization feels like being immersed in a warm bath—a state of ultimate, restorative comfort.

A “Chemical Detox” Inside Your Body —— The Endocrine System’s Natural Prescription for Joy

When your brain and nerves finally slow down, the command center of your endocrine system—the HPA axis (Hypothalamic-Pituitary-Adrenal axis)—stops pumping “stress toxins” through your bloodstream, initiating a complete overhaul of your hormonal environment:

  • A Sudden Drop in Stress Hormones (Cortisol): Chronic anxiety keeps our bodies drowning in cortisol and adrenaline, leaving us exhausted and accelerating aging. Deep meditation presses the brake firmly, significantly lowering the cortisol levels in your blood and defusing your body’s stress triggers.
  • A Gentle Influx of Neurotransmitters: At the same time, sitting in stillness prompts the brain to release an abundance of endorphins (nature’s painkiller and healer), serotonin (the ultimate mood stabilizer), and dopamine. This is what practitioners historically called the “joy of meditation” (Chan Yue)—a high-tier, intrinsic peace that requires no money, no material possessions, and no external validation. It arises simply because you are sitting there.
Meditator radiating joyful inner light and harmony

Deep meditation is never a faraway, untouchable myth. The methods of tuning the mind, explored by ancient Eastern wisdom thousands of years ago, form a perfect, rigorous, and incredibly tender loop with modern medicine.

The moment you sit down and close your eyes, your nerves are reshaping, your blood vessels are relaxing, and your hormones are balancing. This is more than a spiritual pilgrimage; it is a profound act of self-care and a gentle embrace from your body, which has never given up on you.

In a world that constantly screams at you to go “faster, harder, and further,” the meditation mat is the one place where you can tell yourself: “Right now, there is nothing to do, nowhere to go. Just breathe.”

The next time you feel weary or lost, try putting your phone down.
Close your eyes, and bring your awareness back to the space between the inhale and the exhale.

Because the powerful, deeply serene version of yourself you are longing for has never left. They have been waiting for you all along, right inside your very next breath.

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Transforming Adversity into Spiritual Growth: The Wisdom of Patience from Lama Atisha

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In our daily lives, we often fall into a harmful habit: when trouble arises, we instinctively blame others and rarely acknowledge our own karma.

Since time immemorial, we have been conditioned to look outward—to criticize and judge those around us—while seldom pausing to examine our own minds. Every surge of emotion and every lingering affliction is driven by the swelling of our own “ego.” When Buddhism speaks of “releasing the ego,” it does not mean losing yourself; rather, it encourages us to let go of our blind attachment to self-centeredness.

Consider this: setting aside the faults of others, are we truly completely blameless?

No instrument can produce music with a single part. It takes two hands clapping to make a sound; cymbals must strike together to resonate. The same principle applies to life’s conflicts—it is exceedingly rare for one person to be entirely faultless while the other is completely to blame.

Padampa Sangye, a master in the Chöd transmission lineage, once taught:

“Believing that our enemies are harming us is merely our delusion. If we can convert anger into compassion, it brings us the greatest benefit.”

Lama Atisha also imparted this wisdom:

“Do not feel hatred toward those who cause you harm. If you respond to harm with resentment, you lose the very object needed to practice patience.”

When faced with provocation or mistreatment, if we can extinguish anger and practice patience (Kshanti), we not only purify our past misdeeds but also accumulate immense merit and spiritual strength.

When Lama Atisha traveled to Tibet, the period of Buddhist persecution had passed, and the Dharma was flourishing once again. As one of India’s most revered masters, Lama Atisha was treated with supreme respect throughout Tibet. Everyone obeyed him, and no one dared to make him angry.

Yet Lama Atisha reflected: “If everyone caters to me, where will I find the opportunity to practice patience?”

Determined to cultivate patience, Lama Atisha specifically chose a servant with an exceptionally fiery temper to stay by his side. Unlike others, this servant was far from submissive—he frequently disobeyed Lama Atisha and lost his temper with him.

Seeing this, many disciples felt offended and believed that a great master should not endure such rudeness. They urged Lama Atisha to dismiss the servant. But Lama Atisha replied with deep compassion:

“This servant is of profound kindness to me! Precisely because he provokes me, he gives me the opportunity to practice patience. Otherwise, no one in Tibet would dare anger me, and I would forever lose the chance to cultivate endurance.”

If even a great master treasured adversity so deeply, shouldn’t we also view every hardship as a catalyst for our own spiritual awakening? After all, every favorable or unfavorable circumstance in life is simply the unfolding of cause and effect.

To cultivate a mind free of anger, we must deeply appreciate the infinite merit of patience:

  • When opposed, remain unperturbed
  • When hated, remain free of resentment
  • When provoked, remain calm
  • When insulted, remain tranquil

To face turmoil with equanimity—keeping the mind undisturbed and self-contained—is the true hallmark of a spiritual practitioner.

As the Buddha declared: “Non-action is supreme, and patience is the highest path.”

Among all teachings, the practice of patience stands supreme. It is the direct path to enlightenment and a priceless treasure within our own true nature.

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