Category: Health and wellness

Healing in the Mountains: How Hiking and Forest Bathing Restore the Soul

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I have always loved being close to nature, and one of my greatest joys is walking through the forest. Living in Santa Cruz, I am surrounded by beautiful woods and mountain trails. Each time I wander beneath the trees and along winding paths, I arrive at the end feeling lighter, calmer, and deeply refreshed—as if my body and mind have been fully recharged.

I once came across an interesting idea:
Mountains are places where we gain energy, which is why after hiking, we often feel alert and invigorated. Water, on the other hand, carries energy away. This may explain why spending long hours by the ocean or a lake can leave us feeling tired. Yet water also washes away emotional heaviness. When we feel sad, restless, or overwhelmed, a walk by the sea often brings a sense of release and ease.

Energy is constantly flowing through nature. We are simply quiet participants, allowing the natural world to gently adjust our inner frequency.

Discovering “Forest Bathing”

Recently, I was delighted to learn that the Japanese have a word that perfectly describes this healing experience: forest bathing.

In Japanese, it is called shinrin-yoku:

  • Shinrin means forest
  • Yoku means bathing

Together, shinrin-yoku means “bathing in the forest,” or allowing our entire being to absorb the atmosphere of the woods. As early as 1982, Japan officially incorporated forest bathing into its national public health program as a form of preventive and therapeutic care.

Suddenly, I realized that every breath I took in the forest had always been quietly nourishing me.

Japanese researchers have conducted extensive studies on forest bathing and found remarkable benefits for overall well-being. Research shows that forest bathing can:

  • Reduce stress
  • Strengthen the immune system
  • Lower blood pressure
  • Support recovery after illness or injury
  • Improve mood and concentration

For me personally, its most immediate effect is simple yet profound—it quickly lowers stress and brings my heart back to a place of calm.

Forest bathing is very different from running or brisk walking. It is not about exercise or distance; it is about presence. The key is to slow down and fully engage all your senses:

  • Touch the bark of trees—rough or smooth
  • Watch sunlight dance through layers of leaves
  • Breathe in the scent of earth and greenery
  • Listen to the wind moving through branches
  • Find a place to sit and feel your connection with the ground

In the past, most of my hikes were intense, goal-driven, almost like completing a task. Since practicing forest bathing, I now schedule at least one slow, mindful walk each week. By slowing down, I have discovered beauty I once overlooked—and I can’t help but smile at how much I missed before.

There is a subtle yet powerful presence in the forest. It does not announce itself, yet it gently soothes the heart.

Perhaps it is the oxygen released by the trees.
Perhaps it is the steady, unhurried rhythm of the forest.
Or perhaps it is simply that, among the trees, we can finally hear our own breath again.

When we walk in the forest, there is nothing we need to accomplish. Nothing to force. Nature naturally helps our hearts soften, open, and grow brighter.

If you feel tired, anxious, or lost in the busyness of everyday life, I invite you to find a nearby mountain trail and give yourself the gift of forest bathing.

Let nature, in its quiet way, remind you:
You are doing your best—and you deserve to be healed. 🌲

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/12/12/healing-in-the-mountains-how-hiking-and-forest-bathing-restore-the-soul/

Are you really listening to your body?

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By Anita Barnes

Listening to your body can be something as simple as going to bed when you are tired, stop eating before you are overstuffed, or releasing a yoga posture when you’ve gone beyond your edge.  It can also involve more serious things, like preventing your stress levels from exploding into chest pain by saying no, averting an acute pain situation or chronic disease by knowing when to slow down, and respond to pain or discomfort in your body.  

For me, the essence of yoga is about listening to your body, mind and emotions and honouring where they are at, because this changes from day to day, hour to hour, minute to minute.  This listening may involve noticing how your body feels in a particular pose-are your muscles tight, are you feeling a sense of release?  How is your breath-do you notice times when you are holding it or breathing faster than you should?  How are your emotions-what’s coming up for you; sadness, anger, impatience, or boredom?  

I learn so much about myself while on my yoga mat.  Through stillness, movement and breath, I have increased awareness of where I’m holding muscle tension and how my nervous system is doing.  This mindfulness helps me move through negative emotions, practice self-compassion and often find sweetness underneath the negativity.  

Our body and emotions are always communicating, and sometimes it’s very subtle, and unfortunately, we often ignore it.  This has happened to me twice in the last year, and honestly, I should have known better.  In the spring, during the first lockdown – (what # are we at now?) I continued with my weight workout because my gym was closed.  I used light weights and after a few weeks felt they were too light and increased the amount.  I started to notice an occasional throbbing pain in my left triceps.  I ignored this and continued to ignore it, not making the connection that the heavier weights were taxing my muscles.  One night I was awoken by the most excruciating pain, exactly where I felt the original throbbing pain, and it was radiating up to my neck and down to my wrist.   Luckily, I was able to see my physiotherapist and chiropractor for treatment, and they felt the pain was connected to an aggravated radial nerve.  My doctor prescribed me an anti-inflammatory, and I felt better after the first treatment; however, it took several months until I fully recovered. 

You think this would have been a massive wake up call for me to pay attention to subtle changes in my body-the whispers.  Nope.  Since the recent lockdown, state of emergency, whatever we’re at these days, I committed to going for a long walk or hike every single day because my spirit needed this connection to nature.  After a few longer hikes of 2-3 hours through a local conservation area, I noticed a pain in my right glute.  It wasn’t severe pain and didn’t last long, so it was easy to brush off.  However, it did happen at least 4-5 times, and I completely ignored it, and just over a week ago, I paid for this BIG TIME!!!!   

After an active day on January 15th, I noticed a pain in my right hip flexor, went to bed, but didn’t stay long because the pain became too intense.  By Saturday afternoon the pain had increased with a vengeance, and I didn’t sleep on Saturday night and woke my husband up at 3 am on Sunday informing him that he had to take me to emergency because I was in that much pain.  At the ER they ruled out a few things and thought that diagnosis was piriformis syndrome-irritation of the piriformis muscle.  They suggested rest, anti-inflammatories, extra-strength Tylenol and physiotherapy to get back on track.  The pain wasn’t being managed, and on Tuesday morning, I had to go to the ER once again because the pain became so severe that I couldn’t walk.  This time they focused on pain management and gave me morphine via IV and a script.  The pain subsided, and I was able to walk and go home.  

By this time, I hadn’t slept for 4 nights and saw my physiotherapist for the first time.  He performed a full assessment and didn’t think I had piriformis syndrome and felt that my joint and muscles were functioning well.  He thought that I might have overdone it with my hikes and aggravated some muscles and nerves.  

I continued with the pain management meds and physiotherapy, and last Saturday afternoon, I noticed that the pain had left entirely.  I haven’t had any pain since and still have no idea what caused it, but have some ideas.  I believe that my enthusiastic hikes irritated the muscles and nerves in my right hip, and I had plenty of warning that something was up.  

I’m so grateful to be pain-free and have the most profound compassion and empathy for anyone dealing with chronic pain.   I honestly don’t know how anyone deals with it. 

I don’t want to go through something like this again, and I’ve learned my lesson about the importance of listening to my body, not just on my yoga mat, but always.  

Our body, breath and emotions are always communicating to us and sending us messages.  They usually start as little whispers, and if you don’t pay attention, your body will yell at you loud and clear and force you to listen. 

Off the yoga mat, it’s essential to take time throughout your day to slow down, be still and tune in.  How does your body feel?  Do an emotional check-in.  Honour your body, and give it the attention and nurturing that it deserves.  Trust your body,  its’ wisdom and healing abilities.  

Be well.

Anita

Source: https://countyyogaloft.ca/blog/mijpjcfyqxydger4435o02oej6q2zl

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/12/05/are-you-really-listening-to-your-body/

One Page at a Time: Reclaiming Our Minds in the Age of Endless Screens

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In today’s world, our phones are never more than an arm’s length away, and our minds rarely get a moment of true rest. We scroll without thinking, click without choosing, and consume without noticing. But deep inside, many of us feel the same quiet truth—we are losing ourselves in the noise. This post is a small reminder that peace, clarity, and spiritual nourishment are still possible, if we begin to consciously take back our attention.

Instagram Reels, YouTube Shorts, Facebook browsing—what starts as a quick check so easily becomes an hour of mindless scrolling. It’s almost frightening how fast time disappears. Even without TikTok, I can feel the pull of the algorithm shaping my habits, my attention, even my thoughts.

Of course, technology brings wonderful conveniences. We can speak with loved ones across the world instantly, save treasured memories, learn anything we want, and make life easier in countless ways. But lately, I’ve realized something important:

I’m exhausted. Mentally, emotionally, spiritually.

My attention span is scattered. Silence feels uncomfortable. I reach for my phone without thinking. And I’ve begun to wonder—is this what addiction feels like? Knowing you don’t need it, yet still reaching for it anyway?

We all know we’re on our screens too much.
But knowing doesn’t free us.
Conscious action does.

The Real Cost: What Screen Time Is Stealing From You

This isn’t just about an hour lost to Instagram; it’s about the erosion of the most vital parts of our lives. The time we spend staring into a screen is time actively taken away from meaningful, real-world engagement.

Screen time is truly troubling our lives right now:

  • We have less time to exercise. The energy required for a twenty-minute workout is often sacrificed for twenty minutes of passive scrolling on the couch.
  • We have less time to play with kids. Those precious, unrepeatable moments of building a fort or kicking a ball are missed because we’re “just checking” a notification.
  • We have less time to talk to our parents/partners. Authentic, present conversation is replaced by parallel consumption, sitting next to a loved one while both are immersed in separate digital worlds.
  • We have less time for deep, restorative sleep. The blue light, the stimulating content, and the mental chatter we absorb right before bed actively hijack our ability to rest.

A Spiritual Perspective: Why Screen Addiction Makes Us Unhappy

In Buddhism and many spiritual traditions, the mind is described as a lake.
When the surface is constantly stirred—by notifications, news, entertainment—it becomes muddy. We can no longer see clearly. Wisdom, compassion, and calmness all sink beneath the surface.

Excessive screen time:

  • scatters the mind through endless stimulation
  • drains our life-force through constant comparison and craving
  • steals the quiet moments where insight and peace are born
  • pulls us away from real presence—real people, real breath, real living

Spiritual masters remind us:
“Where your attention goes, your life goes.”
If our attention is constantly fragmented, our life becomes fragmented too.

Actionable Suggestions to Reduce Phone & Social Media Time:

StrategyHow It Works
The Friction FolderMove all tempting social media/entertainment apps into one folder on the very last page of your phone screen. This adds just enough friction to make you pause before opening.
Grayscale ModeSwitch your phone display to black and white. Color is a primary driver of attention and addiction; removing it makes the screen less stimulating and less fun to look at.
Set App LimitsUse your phone’s built-in Screen Time settings to put a hard limit (e.g., 30 minutes) on all social media apps. Once you hit it, the app locks for the day.
The “Phone Bed”Designate a charging spot outside your bedroom. Use a traditional alarm clock. Your bedroom should be a sanctuary for sleep and connection, not consumption.
The “Purpose-First” RuleBefore you unlock your phone, state out loud (or in your mind) what you are picking it up to do (“I am checking the weather,” “I am calling Mom”). Complete the task and immediately lock the screen.

Mindful Practices I’m Recommending:

These are small, spiritual steps to reclaim your mind:

  • Put the phone out of sight. What the eyes don’t see, the mind doesn’t crave.
  • Create “sacred screen-free hours.” Mornings or evenings where the mind can rest—like offering ourselves a daily meditation.
  • Return to the breath whenever the urge to scroll pops up. One breath. One pause. One moment of awareness.
  • Read again—slowly, intentionally. A physical book becomes a refuge, a temple for the mind.
  • Replace noise with mindfulness. Walk without headphones. Eat without a screen. Let silence become a friend again.
  • Remind yourself of impermanence. Every moment spent scrolling is a moment of life we never get back.

Little by little, I’m learning to soften the grip that screens have over me.
Not by force, but by nurturing something deeper—presence, clarity, and spiritual freedom.

Do One thing mindfully and intentionally at a time. It’s time to be truly alive again.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/12/04/one-page-at-a-time-reclaiming-our-minds-in-the-age-of-endless-screens/

Source: https://vocal.media/humans/call-of-the-child

How to Eat Healthy as a Vegetarian

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How to Eat Healthy as a Vegetarian: A Complete Guide to Balanced Plant-Based Nutrition

Choosing a vegetarian lifestyle can be deeply meaningful — whether for health, compassion, the environment, or spiritual reasons. But simply cutting out meat does not automatically make a diet healthy. To feel energized, strong, and nourished, vegetarians need to understand how to balance nutrients, diversify foods, and support the body with wholesome meals.

This guide explains exactly how to eat healthy as a vegetarian, whether you are new to this lifestyle or wanting to improve your current eating habits.

1. Focus on Whole, Minimally Processed Foods

A healthy vegetarian diet begins with whole foods that deliver essential nutrients without excess sugar or artificial additives.

Include plenty of:

Tofu, tempeh, or other soy products

Fresh fruits

Vegetables of all colors

Whole grains (brown rice, quinoa, oats, barley)

Beans, lentils, and legumes

Nuts and seeds

Focus on Whole, Minimally Processed Foods

Whole foods provide fiber, vitamins, minerals, and plant compounds that support long-term health.

2. Prioritize Plant-Based Protein

Protein is essential for muscles, energy, hormones, and immune function. Vegetarians can easily meet their needs by mixing different protein sources throughout the day.

Healthy vegetarian proteins include:

Eggs*
(*for ovo-lacto vegetarians)

Lentils

Chickpeas

Black beans and kidney beans

Tofu and tempeh

Edamame

Greek yogurt*

Prioritize Plant-Based Protein

Combining proteins with whole grains, such as beans with brown rice, creates a complete amino acid profile.

3. Ensure Adequate Iron Intake

Vegetarians need to be mindful of iron because plant-based iron (non-heme iron) is absorbed less efficiently.

Adequate Iron Intake

Great vegetarian iron sources:

Iron-fortified cereals

Spinach, kale, and dark leafy greens

Lentils and chickpeas

Pumpkin seeds

Blackstrap molasses

Tip: Eat iron-rich foods with vitamin C (citrus, tomatoes, berries) to boost absorption naturally.

4. Don’t Forget Vitamin B12

Vitamin B12 is critical for nerve health and energy, but it is mainly found in animal products. Most vegetarians should include:

Vitamin B12

B12-fortified plant milks

Nutritional yeast with added B12

B12 supplements (if needed)

Even small deficiencies can cause fatigue, so this nutrient is important.

5. Get Enough Calcium and Vitamin D

Healthy bones require a steady supply of both.

Calcium and Vitamin D

Vegetarian sources of calcium:

Bok choy

Fortified plant milks

Tofu made with calcium sulfate

Almonds

Broccoli

Sources of vitamin D

Sources of vitamin D:

Sunshine exposure

Fortified plant milks

Supplements if recommended

6. Include Healthy Fats

Healthy fats support brain function, hormones, and skin health.

Add these into your meals:

Avocado

Nuts (walnuts, almonds, cashews)

Seeds (chia, flax, hemp)

Olive oil

These also help your body absorb fat-soluble vitamins like A, D, E, and K.

7. Build Balanced Meals

To eat healthy as a vegetarian, structure your plate for optimal nutrition:

½ vegetables (raw or cooked)

¼ plant protein (lentils, tofu, beans)

¼ whole grains (quinoa, brown rice, whole wheat pasta)

Add a portion of healthy fats on the side

This offers the perfect balance of fiber, protein, and energy.

8. Limit Highly Processed Vegetarian Foods

Limit Highly Processed Vegetarian Foods

Just because a food is “vegetarian” does not mean it’s healthy.

Limit:

  • Fake meats with long ingredient lists
  • Fried foods
  • Sugary cereals
  • Instant noodles
  • Vegetarian junk food

Choose naturally nutritious options most of the time.

9. Stay Hydrated

Vegetarians often consume more fiber, so hydration becomes even more important for digestion and energy.

Stay Hydrated

Aim for: 6–8 cups of water a day

Herbal tea or fruit-infused water as alternatives

10. Listen to Your Body

Every person’s digestive system and nutrient needs are different. Pay attention to how specific foods make you feel.

Ask yourself:

  • Does this meal give me energy?
  • Am I eating enough protein?
  • Do I feel satisfied after eating?

Mindful eating helps you adjust your diet to your body’s needs.

Eating Healthy as a Vegetarian Is Simple and Rewarding

Eating healthy as a vegetarian becomes effortless when you focus on whole foods, balanced meals, and key nutrients like protein, iron, B12, and healthy fats. With a mindful approach, a vegetarian lifestyle can provide excellent energy, vitality, and long-term wellness, while reflecting compassion and sustainability.

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A Tiny Jar from Paris: Discovering the Magic of Fleur de Sel

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One of my friends recently brought me a small jar of fleur de sel from Paris. The moment she placed it in my hands, I felt as if she had gifted me a tiny, savory treasure. The name alone sounds poetic—“flower of salt.” Inside the jar, the delicate crystals look almost like snowflakes, glistening with quiet beauty.

But what exactly is fleur de sel? How is this luxurious salt made, and how should we use it in our kitchens? I dove in to learn more, and the story behind this precious salt turned out to be even more fascinating than I imagined.

Fleur de sel is a rare, hand-harvested sea salt that forms as a fragile, paper-thin crust on the surface of shallow salt ponds. Only a tiny fraction of the season’s salt forms this way, and each flake must be skimmed off by hand. That’s why chefs adore it—and why it carries a premium price.

(Photo: Difference between fleur de sel (left) and coarse salt (right) from the salterns of Guérande)

It stands apart for several reasons:

  • Soft, delicate flakes that retain a hint of natural moisture, giving it a gentle crunch.
  • A bright, clean, oceanic flavor with subtle mineral complexity.
  • Production limited to traditional salt marshes such as Guérande and Camargue in France, Castro Marim in Portugal, and a few other artisanal regions.

Every crystal is a tiny work of nature.

The Poetic Name — And Clearing Up the Myth

The literal translation of fleur de sel is “flower of salt.” The name comes from how the crystals appear—like tiny blossoms floating on the surface of seawater.

Some people imagine the salt being collected from dew on flowers, but the “flower” is simply a lovely metaphor for the delicate form of the salt flakes.

The traditional process is slow, gentle, and deeply connected to the rhythms of nature.

  1. Seawater is channeled into shallow salt pans.
  2. Under warm sun, light winds, and the right humidity, thin crystals begin to bloom on the surface.
  3. Skilled salt harvesters—paludiers in France—skim the crystals by hand using long wooden tools to keep the flakes intact.
  4. The fragile salt is carefully dried and packed to preserve its structure.

In classic salt marshes like Guérande, daily yields may be only about a kilogram per pond. No wonder it’s considered the “caviar of sea salts.”

Because fleur de sel is unrefined and minimally processed, it contains tiny amounts of trace minerals like magnesium and calcium, which contribute to its nuanced flavor.

However, these minerals exist in very small quantities. It’s best to think of fleur de sel as a way to elevate flavor, not as a health supplement. Like all salts, it should be used in moderation—just with a lot more joy.

How to Spot Good Fleur de Sel

  • Check the origin. Guérande is the most famous and most protected.
  • Look at the texture. The flakes should be delicate and slightly moist—not powdery.
  • Be aware of price. Very cheap fleur de sel is often not genuine.

How to Use Fleur de Sel — Tips from Chefs

Fleur de sel is a finishing salt. Heat will dissolve its texture, so it’s meant to be added at the very end.

Here are some delicious ways to use it:

Classic uses

  • Seared steak: Sprinkle over sliced steak for a gentle crunch and bright pop of flavor.
  • Roasted vegetables: A final pinch on asparagus, beets, or potatoes is transformative.
  • Chocolate & caramel: Fleur de sel + dark chocolate = pure joy.
  • Fresh tomatoes or salads: Add just before serving to highlight freshness.
  • Bread and olive oil: Scatter a few flakes on warm bread or stir into good olive oil.

Pro tips

  • Use it sparingly—a little goes a long way.
  • Never cook it into a dish; always add right before serving.
  • Store in a small glass or porcelain container to preserve its texture and smell.

Fleur de sel is especially lovely with:

  • Steak and grilled meats
  • Oysters, scallops, and simple grilled fish
  • Dark chocolate, brownies, ganache, caramels
  • Roasted root vegetables or leafy greens

Think of it as a tiny spotlight that brings out the best in each ingredient.

To me, this little jar from Paris is more than seasoning—it’s a reminder to pause and taste life with intention. Here are two simple ways I enjoyed it right away:

Sprinkled a tiny pinch of fleur de sel on top of a simple steak. That soft crunch and bright lift of flavor felt like a chef’s touch at home.

A square of dark chocolate topped with just three or four crystals created the most heavenly sweet-salty contrast.

Fleur de sel isn’t about using more salt—it’s about using better salt. It’s a finishing touch that invites you to slow down, savor, and appreciate the beauty hidden in small details… even in something as simple as a pinch of salt from a friend.

If you have a jar tucked away, open it. Let those tiny flakes make an ordinary meal sing.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/11/28/a-tiny-jar-from-paris-discovering-the-magic-of-fleur-de-sel/

Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fleur_de_sel

How the United States Strongman (USS) Built a National Community of Everyday Athletes Through Shared Purpose

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United States Strongman (USS) began in 2014 with a simple but powerful vision: create opportunities for athletes to test their strength in an environment that feels fair, safe, and genuinely supportive. President and Owner Willie Wessels has shaped the organization around a philosophy he repeats often: “for athletes, by athletes.” It is the principle that guides every decision, from event approvals to gym affiliations to the culture athletes encounter when they show up on competition day.

With various events held annually across the country, USS has grown into a national platform for competitors of all levels. “The mission has remained the same from day one,” Wessels says. “We want people to have a place where they can work toward their goals and know the event has been organized with their best interests in mind.” Each competition is required to meet safety and quality standards that Wessels personally reviews, giving athletes confidence that every show has been thoughtfully planned.

According to Wessels, Strongman itself is a diverse sport, blending both functional and traditional strength movements. USS events showcase everything from tire flips and stone lifts to sandbag carries and log presses. Each venue brings its own personality; some competitions take place at independent gyms, some at community centers, and others at local businesses that open their doors for a day of strength, cheering crowds, and grassroots community spirit. “You might see an event in a gym parking lot one week and then a full setup inside a large venue the next,” Wessels says. “What matters is that athletes walk in and feel excited and safe.”

Willie Wessels, Founder and CEO of USS (Image Credit: William Wessels)

USS also supports athletes through its membership structure, which provides access to certified events and ensures the competitions they enter meet established standards. The membership system also connects competitors to pathways leading toward national and international opportunities. 

Under his leadership, the organization has become known for celebrating participation as much as podium finishes. Athletes within USS come from every background imaginable: teachers, healthcare workers, factory workers, engineers, and even complete beginners who discovered the sport by chance. “Strongman is not just for a certain type of person,” Wessels says. “It’s for anyone who wants to challenge themselves.” For many, it can become a place where physical strength intersects with self-confidence, camaraderie, and discipline.

This community-first mindset reflects Wessels’ personal history. At 62, he has spent more than three decades coaching, teaching, and supporting athletes. Before launching USS, he was a longtime health and physical education teacher, a career he describes with warmth. “Working with students taught me patience, humility, and how to meet people where they are,” he says. His passion for building strength, physical and personal, was shaped early on by his mother, whose commitment to education left a lasting mark. “She went back to school at 39 and earned her bachelor’s, two master’s degrees, and her PhD,” he says. “She showed me what persistence looks like.”

Wessels earned the title of North American Strongman in 2002, a moment that inspired many and deepened his belief in giving athletes a place to pursue their potential. Wessels’ own perseverance was profoundly tested when he was diagnosed with leukemia in 2003. Despite a prognosis that offered only a brief window of survival, he continued coaching and competing while undergoing years of treatment. “I just kept showing up,” he says. “Coaching kept me grounded.” 

His personal journey is woven into the foundation of USS. What began as a vision to make the sport more accessible has grown into a movement supported by hundreds of competitions and a network of affiliated gyms across the U.S. Looking ahead, Wessels sees continuous expansion as a natural progression of the sport’s momentum. He noted that participation is rising among both men and women, and the spectrum of athletes continues to widen. 

Wessels says the future of USS will always be guided by the same principles that shaped it from the beginning: fairness, safety, and genuine support. What drives him now is the same thing that drove him as a teacher, a coach, and an athlete: watching people discover what they are capable of.

“At the end of the day, this is not just about lifting weights,” Wessels says. “It’s about showing people they are stronger than they think, on the field and in life.” It’s a belief that has helped build United States Strongman into a national community grounded in resilience, respect, and purpose, and one that continues to grow with every athlete who steps onto the competition floor.

Link:https://www.usatoday.com/story/special/contributor-content/2025/11/20/how-the-united-states-strongman-uss-built-a-national-community-of-everyday-athletes-through-shared-p/87373169007/

When Your Brain’s Motivation System Gets Stuck — Rediscovering Energy Through “Slow Joy”

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Lately, I’ve noticed how many people — friends, colleagues, even myself at times — feel drained and uninspired.
We wake up tired, scroll through our phones for quick hits of excitement, yet still feel empty inside.
It’s as if our inner engine has lost its spark.
But according to a 2025 review published in Trends in Neurosciences, there’s a scientific reason behind this: our brain’s dopamine release system may be getting stuck.

That could explain why so many of us today feel unmotivated or emotionally flat, even when life seems to be “going fine.”

Dopamine: Not Just the “Happy Chemical”

We often call dopamine the molecule of happiness, but that’s only part of the story.
In reality, dopamine isn’t what makes you happy — it’s what gets you moving toward happiness.

Dopamine creates a sense of anticipation — that spark of “I want to try,” the energy that propels us to start something new.
Whether you’re preparing for an exam, signing up for a new class, cleaning your room, or going for a run — it’s not satisfaction that moves you, but dopamine giving you direction and desire.

Think of dopamine as your internal GPS, guiding you toward what feels meaningful, hopeful, and worth pursuing.

Dopamine doesn’t just “fire” from one neuron to another like a light switch.
Recent discoveries show that the brain also uses something called “volume transmission” — a gradual release process, more like a sprinkler or diffuser that spreads dopamine through nearby areas, affecting your overall state of mind.

This helps explain a familiar modern phenomenon:
why short videos or instant rewards feel thrilling for a second — yet leave us empty moments later.
Meanwhile, the slow joys — exercising regularly, nurturing a hobby, cooking, gardening, or spending time with loved ones — bring calm, sustainable satisfaction.

Fast stimulation burns us out. Slow joy builds us up.

When the System Breaks Down, The Brain “Runs Out of FuelSeveral key proteins, such as VMAT2, SV2C, and α-synuclein, regulate how dopamine is stored and released.
They work like the warehouse managers of your brain, deciding when and how much dopamine to release, and whether there’s enough supply to restock.

When this system falters, it doesn’t just cause movement issues like Parkinson’s disease — it also leads to emotional flatness, loss of motivation, chronic fatigue, and social withdrawal.

This isn’t weakness or laziness. It’s your brain signaling that it’s running low on essential fuel.

Three Ways to Help Your Brain’s Motivation System Restart

1. Practice “Slow Joy” — Reconnect with Steady Dopamine Flow
Reduce dependence on instant stimuli like scrolling through social media or bingeing short videos.
These quick hits train your brain to expect constant flashes of excitement.

Instead, rediscover activities that bring gentle, lasting satisfaction: cooking, reading, painting, walking, gardening.
These are the true dopamine recharge stations of life.

2. Move Regularly — Activate Your Natural Dopamine Circuit
Moderate exercise — brisk walking, jogging, squats — done three times a week for 10–30 minutes can powerfully stimulate healthy dopamine pathways.
You don’t have to push to exhaustion; what matters is rhythm and consistency.
Your brain thrives on the expectation of movement, not punishment.

3. Nourish the System — Sleep, Nutrition, and Antioxidants
Sleep is when your brain restores neurotransmitters and regenerates vesicles for dopamine storage.
A lack of rest is like leaving your mental warehouse in chaos.

Eating antioxidant-rich foods such as berries, dark leafy greens, olive oil, and omega-3s helps reduce oxidative stress and support brain health.
Simple, consistent habits are the quiet repair crew your dopamine system needs.

Real vitality isn’t a burst of fireworks — it’s a steady inner light that guides us through our days.
Dopamine’s true gift isn’t the thrill of reward, but the strength to keep going.

When we gently adjust our daily rhythm, we can regain focus and energy without needing excessive caffeine or quick fixes.
We can once again feel that grounded sense of, I’m back on my path. From “Chasing Highs” to “Finding Rhythm.”

The Truth About Drugs and False Freedom

Recently, we’ve seen more tragic news about drug-related crimes.
This makes it even more urgent to talk about dopamine honestly.

Drugs artificially force the brain’s “stimulation gate” wide open — creating a short-lived high while devastating the system meant to sustain real joy.
People chasing that artificial rush often lose direction, harming themselves and others.

Drugs don’t create happiness — they destroy the very system that makes it possible.
That’s not freedom; it’s captivity disguised as pleasure.

When you feel tired, unmotivated, or emotionally numb, remember this:
You’re not lazy. You’re not broken.
Your brain simply needs care, rhythm, and nourishment.

We don’t need to be blinding LED lights burning out too soon.
We can be warm, steady lamps — quietly lighting our own path and bringing comfort to those around us.

Reference:
Redefining dopaminergic synapses beyond the classical paradigm, Trends in Neurosciences, 2025

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/11/11/when-your-brains-motivation-system-gets-stuck-rediscovering-energy-through-slow-joy/

The Fragility of Trust

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“There are two things in this world one should never look at directly: the sun, and the human heart.” —Higashino Keigo

I recently came across this story online, and it deeply moved me. It reminded me that trust and kindness are fragile treasures—once broken, they are hard to mend. I would like to share this wisdom with everyone who reads my blog, especially in times when misunderstandings and suspicion can so easily damage the relationships we cherish most.

Once, there was a newly married couple deeply in love, inseparable and affectionate.
But the wife began to doubt her husband’s loyalty. Her suspicion grew stronger each day until she asked her best friend to “test” her husband’s faithfulness.

To her shock, the two fell in love with each other. What started as a test ended in betrayal.
In the end, the marriage was destroyed—not by infidelity itself, but by mistrust and the reckless act of testing love.

🧬 The Scientist Who Refused to Test

Finsen, the world-renowned Danish medical scientist and Nobel laureate, once chose a young man named Harry as his successor.

Some colleagues worried that Harry might not endure the long, tedious years of research. Finsen’s assistant suggested testing him by having a wealthy friend offer him a high-paying job to see whether Harry would stay or leave.

But Finsen firmly rejected the idea, saying:

“Never stand on a moral high ground to look down on others, and never test human nature.
Harry was born in poverty and naturally desires financial security. If we place him between an easy, well-paid job and the hardship of research but expect him to choose sacrifice, we are demanding him to be a saint. That would be unfair.”

Years later, Harry became one of Denmark’s most respected medical scientists. When he learned that Finsen had refused to test him, he wept and said:

“If my mentor had tested my integrity with a lucrative offer, I would likely have failed.
At that time, my mother was ill and my younger siblings depended on me for their schooling.
If Finsen had set that test for me, there would be no me as I am today.”

🌿 The Truth About Human Nature

Indeed, ordinary people are not saints—everyone has weaknesses. If we constantly test others—our spouse’s loyalty, our friends’ sincerity, or our coworkers’ honesty—we will often end up with disappointment and broken trust.

In the first story, had the wife trusted her husband instead of testing him, the marriage might have survived.

Finsen understood that human nature is fragile. True wisdom lies not in setting traps to measure others’ virtue, but in tolerating uncertainty with compassion.

Testing human nature is like striking a porcelain bowl—it will only reveal its fragility by breaking it.
Trust, on the other hand, is like holding that bowl gently in your hands—preserving its wholeness, beauty, and purpose.

In life, love, and friendship, may we learn to trust with kindness and lead with understanding.
After all, it is not the test that reveals the truth of a heart, but the grace with which we choose not to test it.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/11/06/the-fragility-of-trust/

The Humble Cabbage: An Overlooked Treasure of Health and Simplicity

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Cabbage is one of the most common vegetables in our daily lives. Because it is so ordinary, many people tend to overlook its remarkable health benefits. While people often say “rarity makes things precious,” the truth is that some of the simplest, most affordable foods are also the most nourishing — and cabbage is one of them.

Once considered “the food of the poor,” cabbage has long been underestimated. In the 15th century, a Parisian writer even remarked that the poor ate cabbages and turnips instead of bread. Perhaps that old prejudice lingers today — many still see cabbage as plain and unrefined. Yet, with rising grocery costs and a renewed interest in wholesome eating, it’s time to rediscover this modest, versatile vegetable and bring it back to our tables.

A Traditional View: Cabbage in Chinese Medicine

According to Traditional Chinese Medicine (TCM), cabbage has a neutral nature and a sweet flavor. It nourishes the stomach and intestines, promoting healthy digestion and balanced energy.

Let’s explore some of its wonderful health benefits:

1. Anti-Aging Properties

Cabbage is rich in antioxidants that combat cellular oxidation and delay the aging process. For those seeking to maintain youthful vitality, a simple bowl of cabbage may hold more power than any expensive serum.

2. Boosts Immunity

Packed with vitamin C, cabbage strengthens the immune system, helping the body fend off colds and infections while enhancing overall energy and resilience.

3. Supports Healthy Blood Pressure

Cabbage contains high levels of potassium, which helps regulate blood pressure by balancing sodium levels and supporting cardiovascular health.

4. Prevents Osteoporosis

Abundant in vitamin K, cabbage aids in blood clotting and calcium absorption, strengthening bones and teeth while preventing osteoporosis.

5. Promotes Digestive Health

Cabbage contains vitamin U, known as the “anti-ulcer factor.” It helps regulate stomach acid, heal ulcers, and soothe the digestive tract. Japanese studies have found that cabbage’s glucosinolates can inhibit Helicobacter pylori, the bacteria linked to gastritis and ulcers.

6. Cancer Prevention

The sulfur-containing compound isothiocyanate gives cabbage its distinctive aroma — and its powerful anti-cancer properties. This compound helps neutralize toxins, protect cells, and reduce cancer risk.

7. Rich in Folic Acid

Folic acid in cabbage is essential for pregnant women, helping prevent fetal malformations and supporting healthy red blood cell production.

8. Anti-Bacterial and Anti-Inflammatory Effects

Cabbage contains natural phytoncides — plant-based antibacterial compounds — that reduce inflammation, fight infections, and even soothe sore throats or small wounds.

Culinary Versatility

Cabbage’s mild flavor and satisfying crunch make it a versatile kitchen staple:

  • Salads and Slaws: Shred cabbage with carrots, apples, or nuts for a refreshing, colorful slaw.
  • Stir-Fry: Sauté with garlic and soy sauce for a simple yet delicious side.
  • Soups and Stews: Add chopped cabbage for extra nutrition and heartiness.
  • Fermented Foods: The star ingredient in sauerkraut and kimchi — both rich in probiotics and flavor.
  • Stuffed Dishes: Use cabbage leaves to wrap rice, lentils, or meats for comforting stuffed rolls.

Lightly Pickled Cabbage: A Liver Cleanser and Detox Aid

Cabbage contains indoles, anti-cancer nutrients that also protect the liver and enhance detoxification. When cabbage is lightly pickled, its benefits multiply.

In Traditional Chinese Medicine, sour flavors are believed to nourish the liver. Lightly pickled cabbage helps detoxify the body, strengthen immunity, beautify the skin, and support cardiovascular and digestive health.

Fermented cabbage is also a powerful probiotic food. Lactobacillus plantarum, a beneficial bacteria from fermented cabbage like kimchi, supports the gut microbiome — the foundation of our immune system and overall well-being.

Easy Recipe: Lightly Pickled Cabbage

Ingredients

  • 500 g cabbage
  • 2 teaspoons salt
  • 1 teaspoon sugar

Instructions

  1. Wash and drain the cabbage, then slice it finely.
  2. Divide into two portions. Place half in a bowl, sprinkle with 1 teaspoon of salt, and gently knead until softened.
  3. Add the remaining half, the rest of the salt, and sugar. Continue kneading until juicy.
  4. Pack into a clean glass jar with its liquid.
  5. Seal and leave in a cool place for half a day to lightly ferment, then refrigerate. Serve chilled.
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Cabbage may not have the glamour of kale or the trendiness of arugula, but it carries quiet strength and wisdom — a reminder that simplicity often hides great value. In a world obsessed with novelty and luxury, perhaps we can learn from this humble vegetable: to nourish deeply, give generously, and thrive quietly.

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/11/06/the-humble-cabbage-an-overlooked-treasure-of-health-and-simplicity/

Yoga is so much more than just stretching

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What’s the first image that comes to mind when you think of Yoga?  

It’s not uncommon for this image to consist of individuals contorting their bodies into impossible positions that are more appropriate for the Cirque du Soleil.  There is nothing wrong with some of these breathtaking images, and I love looking at them because I’m in awe of the strength, grace, practice, and determination it takes to hold these postures.  My issue with these images flooding social media is that these postures are not possible for most individuals (including me) and the models are usually young, white, beautiful, slim women.  This makes it hard to connect to Yoga’s rich Indian history or how it is a practice that is for EVERYONE regardless of age, body type or ability.

In the last few decades, Yoga has become a billion-dollar business.  When I started attending yoga studios in Toronto in the early 1990s, there were only 2 studios, and now there is a studio every 3 blocks.  There are “yoga teacher rock stars” and businesses that make high-end yoga gear. I’m glad that Yoga has become so popular because this beautiful healing practice impacts more people.  However, I believe this commercialism and competitiveness have diluted the teachings and appropriates this ancient practice in some situations. 

There is evidence that Yoga existed in India as far back as 500 BC with roots in Hinduism, Buddhism, Jainism and other religions.   Sanskrit is the sacred language of Hinduism, classical Hindu philosophy, and other historical religious texts. The word ‘Yoga‘ is derived from the Sanskrit root ‘Yuj’, meaning ‘to join’ or ‘to yoke’ or ‘to unite-union of mind, body and spirit.  

As a yoga teacher and student, I want my students to be familiar with Yoga’s roots and understand that what happens on the mat is more than just stretching and holding postures.   This union of mind, body and spirit, happens while practicing the asanas-Sanskrit word for postures.  A regular practice will increase flexibility, strength and mobility, and while you are holding the postures, you are practicing pranayama-breath control, meditation, and mindfulness.   This holistic practice is how transformation happens and the “union” builds a healthier, more agile body, calms the nervous system, teaches presence, and provides us with tools that we can use off the mat.  

Yoga has a rich philosophical history that includes sacred and treasured texts: The Vedas, The Upanishads, The Bhagavad Gita and Pantanjali’s Sutras.  

Pantanjali was an Indian sage and thought to be the author of the Yoga Sutras, which is a classical yoga text on yoga theory and practice.  According to his teachings, there are 8 components to Yoga:  

1.   Yamas-attitudes towards environments. 

2.   Niyamas-attitude towards ourselves 

3.   Asana-yoga postures 

4.   Pranayama-breath control and breathing exercises

5.   Pratyahar-withdrawal of senses

6.  Dharana-concentration

7.  Dhyana-meditation

8.  Samadi-complete integration

One of the most compelling benefits of Yoga is stress reduction. It’s inspiring to see how it has helped individuals recover from trauma, PTSD, depression, and anxiety.  

Enjoy the stretching and postures, and know that you are also calming your mind and relaxing your body.  Instead of thinking of Yoga as work out, think of it as a work in.  

Be well.

Anita

Link:https://peacelilysite.com/2025/10/29/yoga-is-so-much-more-than-just-stretching/

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